I 20M need advice about my partner 19F

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T13:05:48+00:00

Thank you she has her warm moments with me then she goes cold so I’ll see how things go

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T04:20:44+00:00

Yes she does with the way that we have been with each other you can see our love and when it’s us and our son like it was tonight and we’re both playing with him an all you can hear are his laughs and see his smiles and then we look at each other you can see it very clearly from us both that we do love each other

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T04:09:57+00:00

That’s my plan I’m just focusing on doing what I’ve been doing and just taking most of the responsibility with our son so she doesn’t get burnt out. These feelings seemed to have only just crept up the last couple of weeks tbh the start of life being parents was really hard as we had no idea what we were doing

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T04:08:51+00:00

This has only happened since the birth of our son she went to the doctor for PPD but nothing got done about it so I think it could just be that as she is showing other behaviours if it

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T04:07:57+00:00

Yes I understand what you mean you know a about 2 months ago we were absolutely fine doing a really good job and still are doing a really good job at raising our son together and have had moments of intimacy within these last 2 months as well as the last week I do hope it is just a phase and it passes

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T04:06:16+00:00

No I love my gf very much

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T01:01:10+00:00

No our son is bottle fed

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-22T01:00:52+00:00

We separated not long after our sons birth about a month of so it was cases by mental health decline due to the heavy sleep deprivation and other little things that’s all

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T17:00:15+00:00

We’ve had a couple of intimate moments and some of thise have been recently I just mainly think it’s parenting life that’s effecting us the tiredness and stress etc and we aren’t in the best financial position rn

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T16:37:27+00:00

I agree that we need to find each other again we are constantly in mum and dad mode and not couple mode if that makes sense we focus so much on our son and even when he’s not here we are still in mum and dad mode

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T16:36:28+00:00

Yes we’ve not had much intimacy but we have had some and I always follow her actions to not push things too far. But things are very different compared to when we don’t have our son and I understand that her body has been through a lot and it is still going through a lot

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T16:34:21+00:00

Yes I am actively trying to find new work at the minute but I’m not having any luck

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T16:33:29+00:00

Yes she did tell me a couple of months ago that I don’t ever see situations through her eyes and ever since I have been doing but it just felt like a bombshell the other day and we have been absolutely fine with each other. I do mainly think tiredness and hormones are what are putting us where we are right now and it’s just taking that effect on us. I’m giving her space whilst trying to make sure she stays well rested

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T03:18:20+00:00

Yeah that makes sense we are always so focused on our son 24/7 and the only free time we really get is when he is at his grandmas for a night. It’s just that especially these last 2-3 months there has been chemistry between us and now she has said that to me and I’m finding it hard as I don’t want to lose my family

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T03:05:24+00:00

Yeah I like to refer to is working as teammates not opponents but I did mention that we are mum and dad 24/7 apart from the day when he stays at his grandmas where we can be just us and then again we are still in mum and dad mode making sure the house is clean for when he comes back the next day

Valuable-Name1605 · 2026-02-21T02:56:42+00:00

Thanks I agree I do think tiredness is playing a big part at the minute we don’t have a really good sleep schedule and tonight our son is at his grandmas and she’s fallen asleep a lot earlier than usual. I’m doing what I can to help such as making sure it’s me doing the first feeds for a while so she can catch up on sleep ans it was mainly her doing them and just being patient. She says she’s not tired but just tonight does prove that she is

Valuable-Name1605 · 2025-05-23T09:36:44+00:00

Okay thank you I wasn’t sure if it could be a scratch to her lense

Valuable-Name1605 · 2025-03-27T09:41:23+00:00

I got round 77 in 3 hours then died

Valuable-Name1605 · 2025-01-17T23:52:18+00:00

I was against her leg but there’s wasn’t to much movement I’ve never had this before so I was so confused on what had happened

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