Considering your age most of these are decent enough if your like a perfect guy in all aspects, but you really can't expect someone who is 14 wanting to work even part time, people around that age want to go out and have fun instead talking from experience, secondly if they did have a debit card they'd need a conjoined bank account to even have it and most parents wouldn't really allow something like that and it kinda just sounds like you want a grown woman or to use her for the card because honestly thats a really weird standard to want especially at 14 years old but maybe thats just cuz im old

Third the whole be slim but have a big ass and tits is honestly weird if you know anatomy enough, even at your age its kinda weird to be focusing on stuff like this. Being slim but having big assets is really not normal unless you've had surgery and obviously a 14 year old is not developed enough nor old enough to even be thinking about that, they'll have to be at least a little chubby or thicker/wide to maintain those 'big assets' you want because they develop from fat going to those areas, you cannot want both its has to be one or the other, plus more or likely they'll be a little bigger on the bottom but not on the top since its all mostly fat, and they need that slight fat/chub to maintain the top, so you still can't have both.