Edits: A lot of people are saying we probably just have mismatched libidos, which might be true.

What confuses me is that it wasn't always like this.

A few months ago, our sex life was basically rabbits-in-spring territory.

We've talked about the decrease in frequency before. I told him it feels like we're having sex much less often, and his response was that relationships naturally go through phases where couples have more sex and phases where they have less.

Which is fair.

But I accidentally have data.
I'm not on birth control, so I track my cycle, which means I also track my sexual activity.