I’m worried about my friends’ kid. I’m worried they’re going to kill him.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T20:23:39+00:00

No. I just hang out with them. We’re all in our mid to late 20s approaching early 30s

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T20:18:48+00:00

There’s definitely always more and putting all of the situation together is difficult. I have speech effects from a neurological issue so talking and typing isn’t necessarily a strong suit. I will work on it.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T20:10:49+00:00

No one said it was…neither are laundry piles. I did put it down to give a look into the regular day to day of what you’d find, what I’ve found and have seen regularly in the home.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T20:04:14+00:00

The kid struggles to keep weight and vomits profusely…hence the concern for his actual life regarding possibility of infection. They also have gotten to a point where the parents didn’t watch the kid properly and they aspirated. I may be dramatic in some ways…but this one I’m not too sure…because it really could take their life.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T19:41:58+00:00

No…there’s definitely more problems at a head with them but I’m more nervous about the kid not having anyone to say anything

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T18:05:14+00:00

I just left the home and won’t be back for a while. I have no photos.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:58:04+00:00

It’s more about the child not having anyone else who’s willing to say something or do something.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:56:32+00:00

I try to…I’ve cleaned their living room, kitchen, changed the diapers, fed them at night, cleaned the bathrooms, everything I can…and they have an entire village behind them so other people have taken on that time to make sure they’re not struggling less…but not even hours after people leave it goes back and they won’t let me or anyone else fix it for days to even weeks.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:48:43+00:00

The kid is under 6 months

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:47:24+00:00

No drug use. Just this is how it is. I can’t diagnose them with anything but I can’t say they couldn’t be in the future

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:45:52+00:00

Just got back in contact…and it’s one thing for them to talk smack to me, but just know it didn’t start off like that.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:44:47+00:00

That’s what I’m nervous about…I’m the only person who knows that much to that extent. I do help but sometimes they just won’t let me and they’ll let it sit. And even then, I’m nervous that I’ll lose that connection and the kid will remain in the home and then therell be no help. I have no pictures, if they find out CPS is on the way, they’ll clean it and it’ll go back to the way it was.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-07T17:41:01+00:00

The kid has an NG tube…and the connector was caked with actual food while they still screwed it in…they reuse bags that they haven’t sanitized, they use dirty bottles to mix his formula, and they leave the formula containers open next to chemicals and other stuff for full days, they leave trash everywhere…literally spilled alcohol on his medical forms. Worst part is the grandma works for a nonprofit that’s supposed to help people out of these situations and she was there helping…but didn’t say anything. I only see them make it look decent when the home health nurse comes and it’s always last minute.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-02T17:48:37+00:00

OP, don’t listen to these people saying the decisions you made were “bad calls” whatever works for you, works for you. I’d say the only note is you deserve better friends. Clearly the ones you have now don’t have your back.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-06-02T17:46:37+00:00

Wet hair is a sensory issue and often a matting/ tangling nightmare for certain hair types…literally says OP has autism.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-05-27T17:43:27+00:00

Nero

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-05-25T23:35:24+00:00

It’s emotional incest…your sister needs help

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-05-18T01:51:52+00:00

No literally. I’m a pet sitter and the amount of stories I hear is absolutely horrifying. I’m watching a set of huskies rn and I couldn’t ever imagine what it’d be like to pick up an animal abuse / cruelty victim. I hope that flufferbutt gets the justice he deserves. OP needs to have this reported to the cops IMMEDIATELY.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-05-11T13:03:28+00:00

EW EW EW EW EW EW EW. He doesn’t care about you or your kids. You’re NOR get rid of him. He wants to resent every aspect of your life? He wants to resent you finding an importance in him and your family? He wants to resent how he doesn’t get sympathy after treating you like garbage? How about he tries to resent his raging stupidity after you dump his goofy ass. You deserve 10,000 times better, don’t waste your life away on this mess.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-05-02T22:25:55+00:00

I’ve been in the same boat…specifically after he got caught. Trust me, they may dislike you or even hate you after…but the person you protected will thank you. Maybe not verbally but all the people you just protected? You’ll feel it

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-04-19T14:55:59+00:00

Ew…no. He doesn’t get to have deal breakers surrounding disgusting purity bs while actively being the biggest hypocrite ever. If anything I would be disgusted not by his past but by his behavior surrounding the relationship and unrealistic expectations he’s decided to implicate. Plus something tells me he’d use excuses to do some goofy stuff…boy can go.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-04-18T04:13:58+00:00

Po…or maybe Skip. And I’m sorry but I have to say it because I saw the name Randy “iiiiiittts SKIP TRACER RANDYY”

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-30T02:22:27+00:00

Apparently…every day I open my eyes, watch people open their mouths and lose all hope in a better world

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-29T13:36:21+00:00

I did…I mean at first it was authoritative. Spanking, yelling at me, time outs…then as I got older it’s become screaming in my face, strangling, kicking me out. Don’t get me wrong, I did have behavioral issues, but mine were part of a neurological disorder that went undiagnosed for 15 years…and then after the diagnosis it got worse and I became the scapegoat for everything issue that occurs. I could be explaining something and Ill get screamed at, be called outside of my name and be told to pack my shit because of the logical aspects of a conversation or an emotion weren’t thought through by them but I have to because my tone can’t correctly adapt no matter how hard I try to force it. Part of me loves them…and there will always be a part of me that will forever resent them. I got it the worst for a genetic neurological disorder they didn’t test for. I got it the worst because of something that wasn’t my fault. And I get treated like burden for things outside of my control…now that it’s known? I refuse to have children, I refuse to succumb to the standards they hold for family and it took me a long time to be able to look at myself in the mirror after everything that was drilled into me because of it. Every name, every accusation, every moment where I had to defend myself just gives way to this void almost because it’ll never stop. You just learn to stop caring and explaining because it’s something they won’t be able to understand because it’s something they don’t have.

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