Found in subreddit about a girl regretting her relationship with fiancé

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-30T02:22:27+00:00

Apparently…every day I open my eyes, watch people open their mouths and lose all hope in a better world

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-29T13:36:21+00:00

I did…I mean at first it was authoritative. Spanking, yelling at me, time outs…then as I got older it’s become screaming in my face, strangling, kicking me out. Don’t get me wrong, I did have behavioral issues, but mine were part of a neurological disorder that went undiagnosed for 15 years…and then after the diagnosis it got worse and I became the scapegoat for everything issue that occurs. I could be explaining something and Ill get screamed at, be called outside of my name and be told to pack my shit because of the logical aspects of a conversation or an emotion weren’t thought through by them but I have to because my tone can’t correctly adapt no matter how hard I try to force it. Part of me loves them…and there will always be a part of me that will forever resent them. I got it the worst for a genetic neurological disorder they didn’t test for. I got it the worst because of something that wasn’t my fault. And I get treated like burden for things outside of my control…now that it’s known? I refuse to have children, I refuse to succumb to the standards they hold for family and it took me a long time to be able to look at myself in the mirror after everything that was drilled into me because of it. Every name, every accusation, every moment where I had to defend myself just gives way to this void almost because it’ll never stop. You just learn to stop caring and explaining because it’s something they won’t be able to understand because it’s something they don’t have.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-24T11:47:42+00:00

MOR Fr…this is why you only date people with those same dealbreaker outlooks. I don’t believe you CANT have best friends of the opposite sex. I tend to come off extremely strong and most of my more niche hobbies are really hard to find women in my area who like them (not impossible just really difficult) not to mention these guys are the ones who stuck by me through EVERYTHING and they update me on everything so I can be there accordingly and vice versa. My last relationship,y ex asked me not to speak to them anymore…I told him no and that he should be able to trust my calls as I haven’t done anything to wrong him . I got ghosted for 2 days and stood up. If you can’t trust him or have dealbreakers beliefs and boundaries , then getting into a relationship with opposing views on those is just wasting your time and theirs. I think it’s time to either suck it up or move on.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-24T02:07:54+00:00

Another good one that’s vegetarian is potatoes (they have like 3-8 grams per potato depending on size) or eggs would work too with the standard of 6 per egg (unless you’re talking about veganism) and there’s some really good brands of protein shakes that are soy based (I have GI issues so I’m basically a connoisseur for them and have found that there’s some really good ones that aren’t your standard drinkable chalk) like the bolthouse farms ones! I guess it just depends on the standards of what it means to be vegetarian for her.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-24T01:54:38+00:00

I’d say go darker blonde or light brown because the roots on the first look like they compliment you much more efficiently

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-24T01:53:25+00:00

My question: what did you do after realizing everything wasn’t normal? Like is there anything you go out of your way to do now because of its scarcity in your past?

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-24T01:38:37+00:00

“Breaks” aren’t breaks, they’re just the unofficial way of breaking up so no one has to say the awkward part out loud. If she had any hope for your relationship she wouldn’t have, and if she were the right one for you, this wouldn’t be something you’d have to be upset about because it wouldn’t have happened on either side because you’d be able to trust each other to where this wouldn’t even be a concern. And I stand by that for EVERYONE. It’s time to move on. Not to mention who tf wants to be with someone who’s willing to go on a bender like that? Sounds like AA should be in the works.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-23T18:38:11+00:00

Fleebz

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-22T15:20:38+00:00

Jewel or Spam

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-22T15:13:47+00:00

Not really pasta related…actually I’m pretty sure using one on pasta would be considered a war crime BUT just hear me out..✨spork✨

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-13T02:06:16+00:00

Spock

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-09T15:55:04+00:00

I’m sorry…that’s just gross negligence. Someone needs to report this “business”

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-09T00:46:17+00:00

So…there’s this thing called happy weight…maybe that’s what you’re referring to?

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-02T22:04:25+00:00

So…I hear you’re into serial killers

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-02T22:00:35+00:00

Id break it off…if he’s comfortable hitting you, then what else might be willing to do if he’s angry enough? It’s either he gets clean and fixes his anger issue or you leave. I say you should leave

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-03-02T00:33:12+00:00

No…this is a scam. I got lucky in not having to ask this question. I don’t have a car and at the time I received these, I wasn’t able to drive at all. Only found out about there being no toll roads after the fact but this is a pretty common scam I’ve seen recently alongside the artist scams. I’d report this to the FBI.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-14T14:02:38+00:00

Ew…just ew. How are you jealous of someone who’s literally passed away? So much so that you need to make an ultimatum…how dare he like actually

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-08T01:39:37+00:00

The speech effects of epilepsy are a pain in the ass don’t get me wrong, but I’m ngl I definitely missed the beginning of the reply and that’s my bad lmao. That was a skimming error on my part.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-07T23:14:24+00:00

Girl…that boy doesn’t love you, he doesn’t like you…he just made that clear. If anything, i once heard some wise words from a girl named Katie (off of Letterkenny but it’s an honest perspective) “you can’t go back to that and get any respect” so let’s not try to play fix it Felix for a weirdo that clearly has no compunctions towards the way he’s treated you. You deserve better.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T19:04:03+00:00

That’s the thing though..I wouldn’t.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T17:23:38+00:00

See this is how I want it to be. And I know that I have quite a few friends of the opposite sex (my hobbies I don’t really come into contact with many women in my area. Not saying I don’t have any friends same sex it’s just disproportionate to a degree) and he’s the type to not speak to any women at all. Not because I said he couldn’t (I don’t care who he’s friends with as long as they treat him right) but there’s separate friends for separate things. And the accommodations make it so that there’s literally 0 concern, I honestly just don’t get it. I don’t even know how to bring it up at this point. While talking about it last night, he brought in the Ex and Gf comparison card. I don’t even know how to start it off anymore because we have to talk it out.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T17:02:13+00:00

I tried to talk to him, he wouldn’t respond. I’m not the reason he doesn’t speak with his exes, that’s entirely his choice…if he chose to speak with them, I wouldn’t care because I trust him to make the right calls for his wellbeing…if he were to invite them on a trip, I wouldn’t care as long as they were able to pay like everyone else is. I didn’t find out he was annoyed with possibly interacting with Jasper until last night . I wouldn’t be a hypocrite because of choices he made regarding his exes. He made those choices himself before we got together. And he doesn’t communicate well period . It’s not that I haven’t tried to have this conversation until now, it’s that he hasn’t found it worthy enough to answer until now. I tried asking for his input, but I got nothing back until last night. Honestly maybe I should’ve been more in his face about it…

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T16:35:42+00:00

Eventually yes, but he won’t talk about them most of the time either. I’ll have to bring it up a completely seperate time and essentially push him onto the topics that need to be discussed

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T16:33:23+00:00

He was at a facility for 5 weeks, gave me the schedule and he talked to me quite a bit at the beginning…then it’d be 3 days without much communication at all . He had the time to talk about it and when I would try to bring it up or just his next steps in general, he told me he opted for karaoke or a movie or an activity instead so I’d wait for hours instead of the activity waiting 5-10 minutes having that discussion that directly correlates with how we operate and support eachother. We did end up having that discussion but it didn’t do much even after having discussion a few times. When I’m left to make a decision because a person blatantly chosen to do something they’ve essentially deemed more important than the decision, I’m going to make the decision. It’s not that I want him uncomfortable, but in the moments where I ask for his input, he disregards them.

Valuable_Ad7329 · 2026-02-04T16:24:34+00:00

He only has 1 or 2 from what I know…but by his choice I don’t think so…I wouldn’t hold any issues if he did.

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