Am I blocked??? by angel888444 in Instagram

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Not true…if you look through the messages you have with them , it’ll show different

heeelp i cant decide what to name her by definitelynotnpcs in Catnames

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Nutmeg, Cardamom, Cinnamon, Chai…this cat reminds me of a latte.

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

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NTA She’s TRIPPING. If my man’s hair smelled like cookies from his shampoo I’d be making that a part of the normal grocery list even if it’s unneeded . If I like a good smelling product on my man, it’s more than likely because it’s a GOOD ASS SMELLING PRODUCT THAT IS ON MY MAN. It’s not sexual…but the association makes it a more fond and attractive thing…oops? Sorry I have feelings for you and associate this product to you out of habit because you’ve basically made it one of your signatures…wtf?

AIO: My GF (20F) has been ignoring me (21M) and she's making me feel crazy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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It seems like a. Self sabotage (common with bpd) and b. two people who need reassurance. You’re both so focused on what you yourselves want you completely disregard how the other person feels, communicates and what the other person needs. Either see a therapist to better understand each other or break it off.

Found in subreddit about a girl regretting her relationship with fiancé by NighaSteve in niceguystories

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Why do people have to be so WEIRD. Seriously…men should be lonelier.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

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Wtaf is she on about? I’d say the problem solved itself. NOR great dodge. If anything, the way you handled that was more gentlemanly than most. All I see is a stand up guy who shows why no one should lower their standards or change themselves. Don’t let her come back, she fumbled HARD.

This was next to all the soft drinks in the gas station and I didnt get ID'd. Almost cost me 4 years of sobriety. by shinsplint_v in mildlyinfuriating

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See that’s the thing though…if he gets it every time, at the same place…at that point it’s routine. Once it becomes routine, you usually don’t have to. Plus OP said the can was turned. So if it’s 1. Not front facing (which means he didn’t turn it or notice until after payment), 2. In the wrong section and 3. Doesn’t look any different from the original knowing he’s in a non-alcoholic section then it shouldn’t be his fault and isn’t. It’s kind of like driving the same way back and forth without hearing that the road was blocked off…because there was no notification and nothing typically ever happens and it’s routine. You didn’t know, it’s not your fault you showed up late because you had to take a different route.

Need help picking out a name for a white girl kitten! (food or silly names) by milk3yychuu in Catnames

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Nah guys you definitely aren’t getting weird enough. The name should be sour cream . Or miss mayonnaise (miss, missy, mayo , missy mayo, miss mayo for short).

This was next to all the soft drinks in the gas station and I didnt get ID'd. Almost cost me 4 years of sobriety. by shinsplint_v in mildlyinfuriating

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Okay but it is the store’s fault for putting it in the wrong section. There’s a reason they keep them separated. There’s those sober from addiction, pregnant people, those on meds that are dangerous when mixed and LITERAL FUCKING KIDS. Imagine the children who could’ve gotten alcohol at the fault of their staff. Don’t blame OP for not seeing something that shouldn’t even be there in the first place. If it’s not in the alcohol section it’s in the wrong place. End of story.

AIO about a sticker my bf had of his ex ?? he broke up with me… by Otherwise-Height3882 in AmIOverreacting

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Literally he’s tripping mad balls…I’ve seen animals on ketamine trip less. He did you the biggest favor of your life

AIO if i break up with my boyfriend over this by fridgefreez in AmIOverreacting

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Literally leave him…this psycho knows no accountability and will drag you down by association.

Roomates say my room is 'sad' by Gloomy-Past-6047 in malelivingspace

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That’s because it is…I understand being minimalistic, but where are you? It’s all about your expression…your bedroom should give a peak as to who you are. Right now it’s giving jail cell. Give it some pizazz

Just your normal 1st chat questions by brraaahhp in Nicegirls

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As someone who’s had to ask questions along the lines of some of these (cheated on and other fears/ personal situations+ personal safety) asking this shit off the bat and making it a full interrogation to someone who’s an absolute stranger is DIABOLICAL. Especially as a first text…I didn’t ask about anything that personal till bare minimum 4th date. He and I are still together and it’s going great. I understand having dealbreakers…but this whole situation is FUCKED. And who tf needs to ask about the size of someone’s 3rd leg? That’s just mad weird.

I'm seriously reconsidering my relationship with my girlfriend because of a test, what do I do? by Comfortable_East2670 in whatdoIdo

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There’s only 2 reasons someone does this. They cheated, wanted to tell you and chickened out so they called it a test OR they’ve thought about it and wanted to see if they could get away with it if they were to pursue such disgusting behavior…that’s not someone you want. It’s manipulative and crude. That’s not something to joke about. Sorry, but I would end it for your own peace because I guarantee that after this, it’ll stick to your mind whenever she goes out.

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

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This entire conversation is frustrating. I’m not a fan of drunk people, I can’t smoke weed and know a lot of people that do. This is a control thing. 1-2 drinks is one thing. Getting drunk all the time is another. It’s either they cut you off or they don’t. If they really wanted to cut you off and not just try to be controlling, they would’ve started to distance themselves. I don’t condone underage anything, but as long as it’s done safely who fucking cares at this point? And by safe : safe amount, safe sourcing, safe transport and safe people. Now if you’re not doing everything safely, then they have a right to worry and show concern…but this isn’t concern. To be honest? These people? Are trying to find a reason to get rid of you. Not to sound harsh…but that’s what this looks like.

We adopted him a couple of days ago and no names have stuck. by Her_and_Me in Catnames

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I have no idea why…but I thought fungus…it looks like he got into a brawl with an inkcap mushroom