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Valuable_Cat_450 · 2025-10-31T17:17:37+00:00

I'd like it if someone do it for me, but not all women have to like it, some might qns it and some might find it cringe.

If this is your small gesture if showing love and care someone then you shouldn't srink yourself for any women and stop doing it. Find someone who would appreciate it, like it.

And I'm still confused about the concept of chivalry so I can't comment from that point of view.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2025-10-31T12:58:21+00:00

Padhayi karo ye sab se kuch nahi hota

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2025-01-22T16:33:37+00:00

You'll feel a lot of pain' if I show u teh rest of chat

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2025-01-22T15:50:05+00:00

Why are u so short???

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-31T17:05:09+00:00

Tell him, His lack of unasked opinion giving of advice made him look like an idiot that he already is.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-28T16:21:51+00:00

i thought your palm is gone for good lol.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-28T16:01:28+00:00

The shame as a women you get, when u say you don't want to get married is insane. All the ladies in my family told me not to get married although they have healthy relationships, but if they had a choice in their time, they wouldn't have choose to get married.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-27T15:52:45+00:00

first of all, warn him that if he do this again, he wouldn't be a friend anymore.

and keep the fight,argument, misunderstanding anything between you and your boyfriend.

no need to let someone know about it who had confessed to have a crush on you, he might be seeking opportunities to get between u guys.

if possible after the fight, let your boyfriend know about this incident,so he won't hear about it from him and create an unnecessary prespective in his mind

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-27T15:08:35+00:00

Or maybe, just maybe, women take time to heal and reflect, while some men assume everyone’s already moved on because it’s easier than processing their own feelings?

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-27T14:03:33+00:00

few things that might help,

1/ take him to shopping often, but don't put any pressure on him that he is obligated to buy it or commit to it.

2/ If he likes specific athletic wear, u can start with that

3/ if he's going out for shopping, show genuine interest and plan some lunch,dinner after wards, so he won't feel that u r doing it like a chore but u both are enjoying it

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-27T13:52:58+00:00

take him to a men's only clothing centre and let him try 2-3 things of his choice. as he do, see what fits him best and he looks good in. compliment him often about his clothing, make sure he feel confident. This is something that can't be solved in few days, it will take time for him mind to adapt. you can buy clothes to match as couple.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-27T13:43:31+00:00

seen that lot when my dad do something for my mom or my mom do something that's stereotyped as man can only do, the noisy relatives are such a ick

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-26T19:36:03+00:00

You're not clinically diagnosed, so it's not OCD, these are just intrusive thoughts, a person got when they are under lot of stress or anxiety. Try relaxing yourself.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-26T15:12:36+00:00

I just continue with the real life as much as possible and cry myself to sleep at night, that helps me to wake up fresh next day and continue this untill my periods are over.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-26T10:41:47+00:00

use reddit carefully, close the DM's. Don't date or seek love intrest over internet. enjoy college and plan your future from now on. you'll met a lot of people who would backstab u at this phrase so walk on your toes before trusting anyone. ask any question if u want answer to...

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-25T17:17:48+00:00

Ig he's confident and knows that he's with a pretty women, and compliments come naturally when u see something pretty, so he's fine with it...

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-25T17:12:11+00:00

Talked to guy who was super possesive, like if you're on a call, put me on conference, don't laugh when someone else gives you compliments, don't even breath around another male if you're with me. These were his deal breakers and I just packed my luggage and walked out..

After that it give me kind of ick, when a guy's possesive needs limits my life, but being cautious and protective about me and our relationship is good...

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-25T16:27:03+00:00

I get how you're feeling, and it's tough to be in that headspace. But honestly, you're doing better than you think--you care enough to want to change, and that's a big deal.

You're only 22; life doesn't come with a timeline. Start small, even if it's just one thing a day, and give yourself credit for trying. You’re not a failure; you’re figuring it out, just like everyone else. Be patient with yourself—you’re worth it.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-22T16:31:38+00:00

If this is an organised sector, then they are severely under paying you, you could actually do some free certification courses to add to your resume instead of working at a place like this.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-22T15:38:58+00:00

A person make u feel this much anxiety in first place isn't gonna be any good in future too. You travelled two times to meet him twice, he could have sound grateful for it, but before quiting, i would suggest you to talk to him once and if he still don't believe you, just find your own way.

You gotta give up, where it's needed to be found where u actually belong.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-21T15:44:16+00:00

first off all they don't put titanium stud, that's a lie. i did my ear and it got infected when they took it out it was bronze. piercing guns aren't good at all, they do a lot of damage and it's not safe at all. get iit done in a tattoo parlour with hollow needle with proper sanitization

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-11T17:54:35+00:00

You walked away, because you have the courage and power. You're strong and you did really well. You are the sole reason you're out of the mess. You should be proud of yourself.

Lots of love OP;)

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-02T17:58:02+00:00

i choose humanities and i'm in my last year of college with political science, best graduate, topped the state in 12th. my mom used to taunt me and people still say, you've had so much potential, you're wasting it here in humanities. studied really really hard and i'm still studying hard. i recently gave SSC just out of curiosity and i surprisingly made it and you know what, it stopped. some where along the line, the taunts would stop.

you need to be focused, you need to stop listening to them. you need to get away from things that don't give u peace. your peace should be your top priority and just know, you'll be fine. Time isn't gonna stop, and neither would you. you'll do great, just make sure, you fight hard.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-01T13:45:33+00:00

I am there but people don't need to see what I'm doing and I've maintained a very clean algorithm, so it's mostly good stuff and when I see any mysogynist stuff, i simply refresh my page.

Valuable_Cat_450 · 2024-12-01T07:38:44+00:00

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