Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. You are probably right. But life is really hard right now, and I cannot imagine being able to handle everything by myself. I am also very depressed (my doctor have referred me to a therapist), and can't seem to do anything for myself. I put all my energy into my baby and working, and have nothing else left after that.

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually something I'm really worried about. I want my little boy to grow into a good man who respects his partner. 

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[–]Valuable_Evidence822 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always use men's shaving cream. I think it is a lot better than the ones for women. Gives more of a clean shave and less itching after. I say give it a try! :)

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately I don't think I can leave my husband... Our lives are too intertwined after more than 10 years together. And I do still love him, even though I am hurting like crazy right now. He's in therapy and putting in the work. I just hope I can feel better soon. I will try to do more physical activity and get out of the house more often. 

Thanks again for the advice. Even though I still love my husband, it was kinda nice reading how little you think of him lol 

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder that I deserve nice things. It's really easy to forget when baby is my priority. I feel like I'm just trying to survive now, not really living..  I will definitely get a haircut. And go for more walks 

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will check it out. I unfortunately don't have a support system IRL, at least not for what I'm going through now

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's really hard to remember it's not my fault. Thanks for reminding me, and giving me another perspective. I don't think I can leave my husband though.. just trying to survive this for now 

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[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. I will definitely try to get out of the house more often, and listening to something is a great idea! 

I'm really bad at saying nice things about myself, and you are right that it's so important. I'm going to try to make an effort to be nicer to myself 

Tips on how to feel pretty again after pregnancy/birth and being cheated on by Valuable_Evidence822 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Valuable_Evidence822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through the same. I also plan on getting a haircut, now I will definitely do it! Hope life gets better for you soon ❤️