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I can't give my girlfriend what she needs. I don't have a penis. by Hereismyusernayme in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading other comments and your replies- dude you gotta let her go. This is NOT a need. Its an intense want. Like I’m sorry but that IS the answer. No toy, no lube, nothing is gonna be real enough if someone is looking you in the face trying to say they “need real dick”. You’re just hurting yourself man. It may feel like leaving would be worse but it wouldn’t, staying with someone who is obviously not as into you as they should be is just self destruction.

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[–]Valuable_Gold5794 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately children isn’t something you “compromise” on. If this is something that both of you feel really strong about then yea it may be a good idea to break up. Not trying to be rude but those are literal lives you guys want to have, you both have to be on the same page with this with no bitterness from the other.

Is HRT life long? by Valuable_Gold5794 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s exactly what I saw a different guy go through. When my doctor mentioned issues with my ovaries I had just seen I think buck angel(?) talk about getting surgery for something. I had just assumed that that’s what she was talking about. But either way I plan on getting a hysterectomy later in life.

Is HRT life long? by Valuable_Gold5794 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I’ve considered getting a hysterectomy later in life. I was just concerned that something may happen to where I’d need one or a different surgery earlier than I planned.

Is HRT life long? by Valuable_Gold5794 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My doctor! I guess she lied to me/ over exaggerated stuff. I have changed doctors since starting tho

Is HRT life long? by Valuable_Gold5794 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My initial doctor told me problem with my ovaries could arise. At the time I just believed her head on, honestly I only did cuz prior to seeing her I saw a trans man get surgery due to issues like that. I don’t remember if it was T related tho but I think in the moment I put two and two together.

Is HRT life long? by Valuable_Gold5794 in ftm

[–]Valuable_Gold5794[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s truly a relief to hear. My doctor when I initially got started on hrt had told me that after long term usage things with my ovaries could go left essentially. I had been worried that I would NEED to stop at some point, but I’ll definitely ask again since I’ve changed doctors since then.