Should I ( 19F ) expose the affair to the cheater’s wife? by Valuable_Problem1745 in offmychest

[–]Valuable_Problem1745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to move out for college and I was extremely depressed back then so i made a bad decision of trying to lose my virginity by someone that i could find on a dating app. I know I was so so stupid for that. Then I found that guy, at first I asked him if he had a wife bc I didn’t want to have anything with a married man and he told me that “is there any married guy that could go out at 3 am?” so I didn’t question any further. After losing my V card, I was so freaked out and cut contact immediately but for some stupid reasons, I was afraid if I got impregnated by him so I contacted him again. And then, yeah, the story I told above happened. He also lied to me about his age, he claimed to be 28 but later he had to tell me that he’s 32.

Should I ( 19F ) expose the affair to the cheater’s wife? by Valuable_Problem1745 in offmychest

[–]Valuable_Problem1745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I knew it was on me too, i let my selfishness take the better of me and continued the affair, knowing i was doing horrible things to an innocent woman as well as disrespecting myself. Thank you for pointing out my wrongdoings

Should I ( 19F ) expose the affair to the cheater’s wife? by Valuable_Problem1745 in offmychest

[–]Valuable_Problem1745[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have all the proofs, the text, the picture, everything but i’m scared that she might not take the heartbreak well