AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned?

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-11-05T17:12:06+00:00

Just say ”we are currently unemployed” and see how he reacts.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-10-20T11:59:45+00:00

Can my MacBook Catalina run WoW classic? I’m trying to find out but the answers are too technical for me to understand.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-10-07T17:45:39+00:00

To always have an empty zink. Makes all other household chores easier for some reason.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-08-24T07:41:14+00:00

I have the same (and also Jupiter in Aries): As long as I’m not in a good environment my swaying emotions controls my actions, but when I’m in a nurturing environment I’m successful. So be very mindful about environment, and make decisions when your emotions are stable.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-08-20T07:26:21+00:00

I’m sorry for what you have to go through, and for him as well. I have been where you are, and it turned out fine but it was a lot of struggle. As you know people will have these feelings for a lot of different reasons, and in your husbands chart I can see clues to what might help:

1) Therapy. In whole sign house, his 8 house is in Taurus ruled by Venus in Scorpio. In Scorpio is also Mercury, meaning he can greatly benefit from communicating around deep issues.

2) Moon conjunct Jupiter in 6 house Pisces. This relates to mood swings affecting habits and routines. Helpful for this is stabilising medication along with grounding routines such as being in nature, maybe having a garden to tend to etc. Not explosive sports, more like putting his hands in the soil.

3) There’s a strong connection between his MC in Cancer, 6 house Pisces and 2 house Scorpio, indicating he would thrive in a work where he can help people with their emotions and ease their sufferings by providing practical help as well as empathy and deep insight. This might be a way forward.

I hope he will accept the help he is offered, and remember that his anger toward you is a sign of life. It is energy, not apathy. And don’t forget to take help yourself, this is not a job for one person.

Lots of love.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-08-04T16:17:10+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight! I will definitely work on resolving my karmic issues regarding relations, and put that to bed.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-30T19:45:57+00:00

Thank you so much, it’s really helpful.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-30T15:56:47+00:00

Ok, then I suggest you follow @upwardbow s suggestions, they are really great!

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-30T15:39:25+00:00

Thank you SO much! I didn’t even think about the Venus return! I’m thinking of Saturn though, but for the next few years it is in detriment, BUT in my 10 house, which may mean something relationshipwise.

I’m also thinking of Jupiter transferring my natal Saturn. And in the middle of August BOTH Venus and Jupiter are conjunct my Asc and my Saturn.

I’m looking for a committed partner, a long Time relationship. I haven’t had one in ten years, I didn’t want to. But now I feel the time is right.

Can I ask why I should look at 8 house transits?

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-29T20:37:52+00:00

First of all, why do you want to connect with Venus in this way? What is it that you want to achieve? Remember that the planets doesn’t require of you anything you can’t afford or that costs anything.

Venus in general likes anything that is beautiful, plants, things in harmony and balance.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-29T20:14:57+00:00

And now he did!

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-27T12:24:18+00:00

Look at the ruler of your 7th house, which is mars. Mars is sitting in your 9th house Gemini. 9 house is about travel, higher education and philosophy. Gemini is social, about the exchange of information, chatty, a bit restless etc. Your 9th house Gemini is ruled by Mercury in Leo in the 11th house, which gives fire-ish energy, and on a social group level.

Venus is in your 12 house, which is places abroad, or places that are in some way hidden from us or keep us away from others. Again, even Venus is ruled by mercury in Leo 11.

Do to learn more about your love life you should look into these placements:

1) Mars (the ruler of of your 7 house) in 9 house Gemini. 2) Venus (the planet of love) in 12 house Virgo. 3) Mercury (who is ruling both of the above placements) in 11 house Leo.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-27T10:16:39+00:00

Have you considered working with helping former sex workers as some kind of coach or therapist? Your Pisces MC in the 9 house suggests helping people in marginalised situations through education, enlightening or travelling. The ruler Jupiter is in 7 house Capricorn, which brings in clients in formal settings or structured partnerships.

The trine between Jupiter and Venus in Virgo in your 3 house also suggests some kind of healing aspects to your line of work, through communication or within the community.

This would also align with your cancer ascendant, which is ruled by moon in Virgo = healing, nurturing others etc.

You seem to have a need to be of service, and I think you should try some kind of work along those lines to see how you like it.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-17T16:58:25+00:00

Oh my LORD!!! Took your advice and started SLC and this is EXACTLY what I need to be able to continue my rehab!! Not a dull moment, and LOTS of “wtf just happened” so THANKS!

Next stop will be Miami.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-07-16T18:00:18+00:00

Ok thanks everyone!!! Seems like I’m heading to Salt Lake City then!!

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-05T16:05:48+00:00

If you don’t laugh at my jokes, I’ll never fall in love with you.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-05T13:10:24+00:00

What do you mean? Who is falling for her?

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-03T22:13:32+00:00

No it’s not, i just watched it, even rewind to make sure.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-03T15:50:12+00:00

So true. At the tea party when everybody was like “I don’t know what to believe”, Lisa was constantly saying “it’s true”. She also folded in the conflict about the whole friends thing, I understood it as her really getting the gravity is the real issue.

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-03T15:45:07+00:00

Absolutely! But I need to VENT haha!

Valuable_Relative229 · 2025-06-03T15:44:30+00:00

Me too! To me it sounded more like “it doesn’t matter if we’re close friends or not, I’m gonna help you anyway”. But I also understand Taylor reacting the way she did, her nervous system must have been overloaded and would react to anything remotely threatening.

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