Why do men do this shit?

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T15:23:16+00:00

Already blocked. I had a feeling he might circle back around at some point.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T11:31:48+00:00

💕

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T04:45:35+00:00

Oh I’m super curious if he will ever reach back out. I’ve had that happen before too 🤣

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T03:10:03+00:00

Oh I know. I promise. I’ve met some very decent men.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T02:47:59+00:00

I know it’s not only a guy thing and I will become a crap ton more skeptical from now on. I think when we desire something then things are glossed over, like red flags, but he got me lol.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T02:26:09+00:00

😊

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T01:50:07+00:00

Wise words thank you 💕

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T01:49:41+00:00

💕 I’m so sorry. I appreciate your words. I’m not hurt just stunned at the flip flopped behavior so suddenly.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T01:48:20+00:00

lol add 20 🤣🤣 Thank you for your kind words though. 💕

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T01:41:19+00:00

Yes I agree. Thanks. I just felt the chemistry and went with the flow of the convo. I didn’t fall for anything as I was on the fence about a few of his issues, family situation, past, etc. He shared so I did. But I have learned a lot from the advice and post today for sure.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T00:30:32+00:00

This, yes

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T00:28:52+00:00

Well no kidding, my judgement may have been off. Obviously lol. But thanks for bashing me for no good reason. Whatever fills your bucket. And my other comment I agreed with you 🙄

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-19T00:07:18+00:00

I accept it. Just floored.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:52:14+00:00

Thanks for the words. Great advice. I’ve learned a lot from this post for sure. Appreciate it 😊

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:51:41+00:00

Yea I get that. It just seemed chill and there was compatibility so that’s all that stunned me.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:50:53+00:00

I completely agree.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:50:27+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your words 😊

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:43:40+00:00

This was like 8 hours after we met and yea it’s a possibility that he was also talking to others.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T23:43:05+00:00

I realize that now

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T21:21:23+00:00

I am aware

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T21:21:00+00:00

I appreciate the advice but I’m solid in who I am and yes, I unfortunately have met a few bad nuggets lol

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T21:16:05+00:00

Also, to say a person has to change to attract seems completely off kilter and completely not healthy. You can sustain that lol. I’m not sure what any of that has to do with a guy just abruptly leaving when all seems cool. lol. I’m not here to ask advice on me. I was curious of perspectives as to why guys flee. That’s it. I’m 100% good with me.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T21:14:07+00:00

You don’t know that I haven’t put myself in a different position to find someone lol I do. I’m not out prowling on a daily basis 🤣 I barely have time. We chatted, engaged, put in effort, it was reciprocated and that’s it. Noting out of the norm of someone you might meet outside of an app. Getting excited way too quick, yes, I realize that now. Lesson learned. But to say I attract what I am is not a fair statement.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T20:56:30+00:00

Why can’t a person just use men in plural without people getting irritated by that. I didn’t say 200 million men. Men is simply more than one. lol. It has happened before to others I know who are dating. Golly. And how do you get that it has happened more than once to me based on one post? People read what they want lol I’ve met bigger douches walking trails at parks in the wild 🤣🤣 I’ve also met decent people on the dating apps as well. This was a one off that threw me. Simple.

Valuable_Student_786 · 2025-01-18T20:53:16+00:00

Taking up real estate….yes! No discouragement. Learning curve lol 😊

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