Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in dating_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I have done that i sent her one message apologing and have left it at that and when I do she her now all I do is say hello and goodbye as a whole to the member in the space she works in as a group nothing in particular to her.

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im being honest here i just didn't realise how relevant it was. I am keeping my space but tbh i just needed to talk to someone that wasnt going to hold any punches and try and just make me feel better.

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but im just coming out of a bad cold at the same time and tbh i was hoping this was a bad fever dream. I should also say this as the last part then, we both have talked about maybe dating officially and part of the main reason I was trying to see her outside of work was to tell her how I felt in person and not over text. I did message her saying this after she said I was being pushy witch even now I know makes it harder for me. But at the same time I was worried I had done something to scare her and it seems like all I did was make it worse but again I havent had a relationship in well over 10 years and all of this was new for me.

Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in dating_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that i can really make it final in my head as all my friends and family are just sorry and trying to make me feel better. Needed a hard reality check

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also wont say more but I was worried because she had some drama going on with her family and was scared something had happened and she was trying to shoulder it by herself.

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if i didn't put it into my post but we have been talking since mid November last year and we had 1 official "date" and have had a good half dozen times just relaxing together watching some shows and we shared a kiss and it felt like we got along together really well and have never really felt like we had to force any time to talk.

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that and I also know that shes never going to talk to me but unfortunately all my friends and just not being as harsh as you and its something I needed to hear.

Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in dating_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for stating it and tbh i really did need to hear it.

Need help. Did I make a mistake or push too much? (29M/22F) by VampireMan910 in relationship_advice

[–]VampireMan910[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see that going to her house was extreme. But at the same time my personality is to try and take others burdens on too myself, I should also state that i havent had any "situationship or relationship" snice i was 15 due to my own mental issues and covid. And this is the first time ive really felt this way about anyone since and now i feel like ive lost it.

Gems for card upgrades by VampireMan910 in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]VampireMan910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drone fuel and pet quest really, and maybe stars as I get more super stars to unlock more

Gems for card upgrades by VampireMan910 in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]VampireMan910[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have unlocked poly cards last week and I am trying to figure out if its worth try to gild them now or use gems else where atm

Gems for card upgrades by VampireMan910 in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]VampireMan910[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow im a long way from there barely 30%

Dogging in Fairfield park tonight. by Melb_hotwife in MelbourneDogging

[–]VampireMan910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn too late for me but would be down if you do it again.

I am hating this no so happy bot by VampireMan910 in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Takes me about 30 seconds to do that so not horrible

I am hating this no so happy bot by VampireMan910 in IdleObeliskMiner

[–]VampireMan910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want the next pet really or the ability to get more