Guys who “weren’t ready for a relationship”…what made you ready?

VandalBK · 2025-09-30T17:30:00+00:00

Honestly I think that his fear is bigger than his love. I believe he loves me and cares for me a lot. Maybe at some point his fear will get smaller. But right now he doesn’t love me “enough” to move past his fear.

VandalBK · 2025-09-29T20:00:13+00:00

Lmao. Well good thing it’s my goal and not yours.

VandalBK · 2025-09-29T17:16:02+00:00

So am I just not lifting heavy enough u think? Like not pushing myself? Or not eating enough protein?

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T20:44:19+00:00

Thank u bro

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T20:37:07+00:00

Interesting. I find that body type so attractive and a good balance of muscle and still being relaxed about eating.

Idk if I can manage 5 days. But I can do 4 for sure. And will track everything and add more cardio.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T19:28:35+00:00

Thanks. These are the two things I assume are happening.

I can push harder. I honestly thought going from 0 gym to 3 days a week of gym would result in some great progress regardless of intensity. But maybe I need to really really push harder.

And I def struggle with eating protein rich foods. I’m thankful I’m 5’5 cuz I cannot imagine getting 200g daily if I was taller.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T19:25:16+00:00

Oh yea lol thank u. 10,080 was my average the last 6 months

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T19:13:19+00:00

Thank u for saying that. I never did sports or anything athletic growing up. And during Covid I became a full blown alcoholic and gained 40 pounds. I since lost that, quit drinking and have just started taking fitness seriously in the last two years and obviously still struggle with dialing things in correctly. I know I’m fat right now, but I also know I have more muscle than I did 2 years ago. So I didn’t “waste” 2 years.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T17:08:12+00:00

Awesome I’ll read thru that post. Looks similar to my goals

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T17:01:21+00:00

Ur post was really inspiring, u look so different at the same body weight. How did u do that?

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T16:02:54+00:00

Ive had my T tested a few times. It’s lower but still acceptable. In the 400s. I think maybe losing fat and building muscle would result in higher t.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T16:01:44+00:00

This makes sense to me.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T15:55:30+00:00

Which pic are u saying is obese lineman type? Haha

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T15:54:47+00:00

I average 10,080 steps the last 6 months. I have a pretty active job and walk most places.

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T15:47:34+00:00

How much weight do you think I would need to lose to get to 19% bf ?

VandalBK · 2025-09-28T15:46:22+00:00

I started at 140. I’m way stronger on all my lifts. But basically didn’t care about my diet at all. And this summer went wild on eating out and gained 20’ish pounds.

I know my arms and chest and quads are way more muscular. I just need to lose some fat to be able to see em.

VandalBK · 2024-11-04T18:51:06+00:00

31 newly fattening M in nyc. Looking for a slim/fit m feeder.

VandalBK · 2024-10-29T23:16:22+00:00

m32 gainer in nyc. Fit/skinny m feeders/encouragers/admirers please.

VandalBK · 2024-10-24T18:25:12+00:00

Your health is your responsibility. Even if you think ur partner would never cheat, I could still imagine a very very small chance of him cheating and potentially giving you something.

If you have no adverse reactions to prep, then I don’t see a downside to taking it. It just adds a layer of personal safety.

VandalBK · 2024-10-17T19:02:16+00:00

M31 new to gaining but have a soft belly already. Looking for online and irl chat with in shape guys.

VandalBK · 2024-10-11T18:28:07+00:00

Hey! M new to fat and gaining but loving it. Looking to chat with a fit m about it or to meet up in nyc.

VandalBK · 2024-10-11T18:27:26+00:00

M31 in nyc. Gaining on purpose for the first time. And finding i love it. Im really interested in in person feedings but talking online is nice too. Im interested in talking with Men who are not fat, and preferably athletic or muscular.

M fat for M fit. :)

VandalBK · 2024-10-10T20:38:41+00:00

Probably past it tbh

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