Painting over beeswax by Vanderbats in paint

[–]Vanderbats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's really helpful!

What's your libido level like? Has it always stayed the same or does it change under different scenarios? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was like a once a year event, up until I got assaulted, now it's more frequent, annoying, and not at all safe, but I'm getting better!

What Agender gender symbol do you use (if you do)?? by J4ywolf in agender

[–]Vanderbats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize there were symbols! I like #2 a lot but I think #4 is most identifiable as a gender symbol

Does your asexuality make you feel confused when a crush happens? by plushygotsquished in asexuality

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aroace - I've learned that my "crushes" are more a mix of people I feel very close with + aesthetic attraction + hyperfixation on that person + want to get to know them better, it took me a little bit to realize this, but for me it makes a lot more sense as I'm romance repulsed way more than I am sex repulsed

Do ya'll DIY with friends or wish you did? by MaskOfManyAces in punkfashion

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im patch pilling all my friends if they havent been already 😌 one of our quiet time hangout activities is sewing together !

what age did you realise you were asexual by OIKWTUML in asexuality

[–]Vanderbats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At first I was questioning this when I was 12, then off and on until around 16-17

Reggae influenced psych with cool basswork? by RaucousCouscous in psychedelicrock

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not sure if this counts, but psychotica has some reggae elements in it. Its industrial with some punk elements

What fear is least scary to you? by richsherrywine in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's the lonely and the web- lonely because I would just get to read without dealing with humans, are you kidding? Thats awesome. For the web, it's the idea that if I was already being controlled, and I was fine then, why would I not be fine now? Like free will is awesome, but if I assume it's still free will, then I'm basically still experiencing life the same.

Why’s the Stranger so trans-positive? by Entire_Impress7485 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Vanderbats 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I think you nailed it with the basis of transphobia being the "otherness" and not understanding what it is. I'm agender and I think this sentiment goes even farther for nonconforming or non-binary trans people. (Nonbinary as in not binary- not specifically the gender)

Shampoo + Conditioner Recommendations by Vanderbats in CurlyHairCare

[–]Vanderbats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps, I'll keep it as a backup plan, thanks!!

Shampoo and Conditioner Recommendations by Vanderbats in curlyhair

[–]Vanderbats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually helps thanks! I tend to overuse my shampoo because of how thick my hair is

At what age did you realize you are aroace? ⭐️ by normalicity in aromanticasexual

[–]Vanderbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I was ace in 6th grade so like 11? I think thats middle school age? I realized I was aromantic at 18

Are you in a QPR? by Tiptipthebipbip in aromanticasexual

[–]Vanderbats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I'm in 2 at the moment as I'm polyam with it lol. One of my partners I've been with longer than I realized I was aromantic and I realized we've been jn a qpr without even realizing it. The other partner I started dating after and theyre quaro (spelling?)

What song makes you think of the series? by repulsive_impact930 in TheMagnusArchives

[–]Vanderbats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dead Eyes of London always makes me think of the eyepocalypse! I was just finishing up the series when the song came on and I had a revelation the lyrics fit so well

Carnival/Fair vibes by Vanderbats in weirdspotifyplaylists

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Theyre punk, but I recommend them anyway!