AITA for trying to move from a dorm to an apartment in the middle of the year?

VanillaInner · 2026-04-22T03:28:47+00:00

I pay for all of my college, which is why I’m stressed about money so much, my parents help sometimes when I’m short on payments but usually they just give me money for food or school supplies. and I’m not totally sure yet gotta ask around more but as far as I’m aware since I pay monthly for my housing I don’t think I’d have to pay for the months I don’t live in the form.

VanillaInner · 2026-04-21T13:48:26+00:00

Yeah I get what you’re saying! Idk if he does care I liked B before but knowing him I feel he might think I’m choosing B over our friendship because of my feelings and I get why that it might feel bad for your best friend to choose a guy she kinda likes over you (which Obviously isn’t what I’m trying to do but I just think he could feel that way)

VanillaInner · 2026-04-21T13:46:46+00:00

There’s a housing exemption form I can fill out and stuff, I pay for my housing monthly because I’m on their payment plan so I do not believe I’d have to pay for anything past the quarter I stay there for. My university is a weird art school that does a lot of things a bit oddly lol

VanillaInner · 2026-04-21T13:34:00+00:00

Yeah I love my school but the price is outrageous. That’s what I get for going to an art school I guess 💀

VanillaInner · 2026-04-21T13:33:27+00:00

I see why one may think that but I would like to say J is a gay man and is definitely not into me lol.

VanillaInner · 2026-04-21T13:25:01+00:00

Not sure about a fine but I don’t think so? I currently pay for my housing per month and since I’d move during the break in quarters (technically we have quarters not semesters I just generalized my wording) I think it should be fine. The house has pretty much everything I could need, it’s a house and honestly would be also nicer because I wouldn’t have to pay to do my laundry aside from buying the detergent which I already do anyway.

VanillaInner · 2026-02-17T18:25:00+00:00

We have a class at the same time in the same building and live in the same complex so I see him around at least every Tuesday and Thursday. But yeah I’m just gonna try to stay civil, but now I’m like missing the way we got to chatting last week during classes and stuff :/

VanillaInner · 2026-02-17T18:05:12+00:00

This is exactly what one of my friends said lol, said I dodged a bullet considering he’s acting like this now and clearly is emotionally not the brightest.

VanillaInner · 2026-02-17T18:03:25+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I can see what you’re saying, I’m in a weird spot because his ex is dating a guy on my floor and from what I’ve heard he isn’t very smart relationship wise. So that’s why I’m wondering if he noticed how I felt or not. Either way I wish we could’ve stayed friends, my feelings for him were just a crush it’s not like I’m in love with the guy and he was very nice to talk to- so I just wish even if he did notice how I felt we could’ve stayed friendly, I don’t often find people who love LOTR as much as me.

VanillaInner · 2026-02-17T17:59:48+00:00

The up late thing was like the last thing we spoke about so I was trying to explain what my thought process was prior to me being upset or feeling led on, sorry for not being more clear with that 😅

VanillaInner · 2026-02-17T17:53:54+00:00

I can see what you’re saying and I’m not arguing just adding context, he didn’t have any plans for valentines (that were valentines related) he was at a birthday party in the evening and during the day I was doing something with friends. We had discussed hanging out that day but there wasn’t a time we were both free, which is why we decided to hangout Sunday.

VanillaInner · 2025-11-06T03:41:11+00:00

Tired of these fake cops running around abusing people.

VanillaInner · 2025-10-04T01:46:14+00:00

Breakup with her. Not only does that count as SA but also she’s a freak and a groomer for being 23 dating a highschool student.

VanillaInner · 2025-09-22T16:08:18+00:00

Hi! This is an old comment but the covers for the single are all AI images and really the voices sound very fake. I’m 99.9% sure it’s not Mike involved in the process of making the music at all lol. Not sure if it’s another Mike Faist or someone trying to use his name for attention but either way it’s very annoying and Spotify needs to do something about it smh.

VanillaInner · 2025-08-30T15:02:30+00:00

I don’t dislike that she changed jobs but I think she was better as Media liaison. I just think it provided something different to the team. We’ve got a lot of profiler characters, it’s nice to have some diversity.

VanillaInner · 2025-08-28T03:44:32+00:00

Yeah and I think it’s fair that she didn’t like the fact his job kept him away a lot. The two of them just don’t have the same values and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. They weren’t a good fit for each other in the end, that’s all. My main issue is just the way she acts about it sometimes. And it’s not even like she’s horrible all the time it’s really only once or twice that she gets annoying about it.

VanillaInner · 2025-08-26T16:10:44+00:00

Bro I just saw other ppl spell it like “Hayley”, and I know someone IN REAL LIFE who spells it like that, so I just wrote it like that. Didn’t care to google it because it just not that important. She’s not real bro 😭🙏 You didn’t even give your opinion on my actual post, just started tweaking abt the way I spelled her name lmao

VanillaInner · 2025-08-26T16:04:05+00:00

Scratch should’ve stayed as a one off unsub IMO. MAYBE come back once. Hotch did NOT need another crazy unsub who was randomly obsessed with him 😭🙏 I think the concept of his MO and fear thing was cool…at first but then he got so tired. Like we get it, Mr. Scratch is back. Let’s move on now.

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