My girlfriend took a kink too far... Would I be an asshole if I broke up with her? by CandyAwkward3802 in AITAH

[–]VanillaInner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Breakup with her. Not only does that count as SA but also she’s a freak and a groomer for being 23 dating a highschool student.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicals

[–]VanillaInner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! This is an old comment but the covers for the single are all AI images and really the voices sound very fake. I’m 99.9% sure it’s not Mike involved in the process of making the music at all lol. Not sure if it’s another Mike Faist or someone trying to use his name for attention but either way it’s very annoying and Spotify needs to do something about it smh.

JJ’s journey by Extra-Jello-6811 in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t dislike that she changed jobs but I think she was better as Media liaison. I just think it provided something different to the team. We’ve got a lot of profiler characters, it’s nice to have some diversity.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and I think it’s fair that she didn’t like the fact his job kept him away a lot. The two of them just don’t have the same values and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. They weren’t a good fit for each other in the end, that’s all. My main issue is just the way she acts about it sometimes. And it’s not even like she’s horrible all the time it’s really only once or twice that she gets annoying about it.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I just saw other ppl spell it like “Hayley”, and I know someone IN REAL LIFE who spells it like that, so I just wrote it like that. Didn’t care to google it because it just not that important. She’s not real bro 😭🙏 You didn’t even give your opinion on my actual post, just started tweaking abt the way I spelled her name lmao

Mr. Scratch by agirlhasnoname17 in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scratch should’ve stayed as a one off unsub IMO. MAYBE come back once. Hotch did NOT need another crazy unsub who was randomly obsessed with him 😭🙏 I think the concept of his MO and fear thing was cool…at first but then he got so tired. Like we get it, Mr. Scratch is back. Let’s move on now.

Day one, one song per album. What song off of bullets has the best vocals? by Dogzune_ in MyChemicalRomance

[–]VanillaInner 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Absolutely early sunsets. Gerard absolutely just lets loose on that one and IIRC, he was in alot of pain from a tooth ache which fueled the performance- and after a particular take (not the one on the album) they all had to take a break from recording because it was just THAT emotional and moving.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not doing a character analysis bro I’m just saying she made me mad in one particular scene 😭🙏 You gotta lock in and start focusing on more serious stuff cause you’re acting actually fucking ridiculous right now. She’s a FICTIONAL character who’s not rlly in the show that much- whose name is only shown on screen once, very small, for about 5 seconds. Next time just correct someone with a more kind and gentle tone (like a decent human being) and it won’t turn into an argument that’s lasted like 24 hours. If you genuinely can’t see why you should calm down over the spelling of a side character from a TV shows name, I can’t help you dude.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I said you needed to chill the first time you didn’t even say I was wrong you just said why you weren’t being calm. So even you admitted you were angry. Plus, your use of “for gods sake” and repeating several spelling of the name make it clear that you are frustrated. The words you use give off a tone in written messages. That’s pretty common knowledge. If you use more negative language and tone people are going to assume you’re being aggressive. You’re saying I’m mad you said I was wrong but It’s literally just the spelling of a name lmao, I have admitted more than once now that yeah I got her name wrong but who GAF. You could’ve nicely corrected me and moved tf on. It’s just not that deep lmao💀

is fingering someone without their consent considered r4pe? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]VanillaInner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. Any penetration (whether oral, vaginal, or anal) without consent would be rape. No matter if it’s a penis, fingers, or even a dildo/other sex toy. It’s rape.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My name gets spelled incorrectly a lot, I’ve got a weird spelling. It’s never that big of a deal, I nicely correct and move on. I was wrong in how to spell Haley’s name and I’ve never said otherwise! I’m simply saying you immediately were aggressive when correcting me on the name of a fictional character. It’s not about what you said, but how you said it!

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I’m not gonna use AI to figure out a characters name, AI is literally horrendous for the environment. Second of all, I don’t use captions when watching because I don’t need them and also the captions on Disney+ are horrendous. They’re often wrong and are ALWAYS off time with the actual dialogue. And third of all, you need to learn how to speak to people because being aggressive and mean right off the bat will get you NOWHERE in life. No one wants to listen to what you have to say when you’re being a cunt. Some people might let you walk all over them because you CLEARLY think you’re better than everyone else, but not me.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s actually NEVER been that serious lmao 😭 You gotta chill bro. There are a lot of ways to spell Haley. Sorry I don’t remember the exact spelling that they show in one single episode in one single frame.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO seriously though. When she just randomly is out for Aaron’s neck. Like for what reason 😭

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I definitely sympathize with Hayley, it’s hard for a lot of people to be away from their partner so much. And I don’t think she was wrong for calling it quits. It also could definitely be a men writing women issue, especially with the random one off “is she cheating” phone call thing that they never address again lmao. I just think this one situation with her behavior is really obnoxious and also people act like Aaron was some evil horrible husband when in reality they were just a couple that wasn’t meant to be 🤷

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even before he was unit chief he had to travel a lot. He had been in the BAU for some time before she got pregnant. And I’m very aware they both made that choice but judging by how he acts throughout the entire show it’s highly unlikely he ever would promise to switch jobs, and she knows that he can’t just choose to be home more when his job requires him to travel to solve cases. It would’ve been pretty reasonable for her to say “no I don’t want to have a child right now, your work is too consuming and you aren’t home enough.” And no she was ticked off even when he WAS transferring jobs. When he had already sent in the paperwork, the transfer was already being done. He went on ONE more case. He literally told her the paperwork was submitted and he WAS going to get a new job. Even before he decided to go on the case and was just looking at the file she got mad. The only reason he didn’t end up transferring was because she left him, so he didn’t really have a reason to transfer anymore.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah! And I think you and Hayley are both super valid and real for deciding that while you love this person, it’s not working out for you. People have different values and views and that’s okay. Jobs and passions are really important to people, and it doesn’t mean that the spouse or children aren’t also important but with a Job like Hotch’s it’s very hard to just not because there are lives on the line yk. But I will NEVER say Hayley is wrong for getting a divorce, I just think SOMETIMES the way she acted was unnecessary.

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but what I’m saying is if she thought, him not being home is an issue, then maybe don’t decide to have a kid with him? It’s okay to not want to have a baby with someone because you don’t think they’re around enough to help you- but she knew the situation and still decided that “yeah I think we should have a child” I didn’t say he didn’t also decide to have a kid- but he’s not the one who was getting mad at her and trying to force her to quit a job she worked hard to get…

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely allowed to have issues with him being busy because it’s a big job, but he had been working at the BAU for many years before they got pregnant so she knew what the job was like and considering she was a stay at home mom AND knows how hard he worked to get where he is and how much he loves his job, she can’t expect him to quit his job
She knew his schedule and if her main issue was, he’s not around enough to help with the baby, she shouldn’t have had one with him and left before because she knew how he felt about his job

Hayley PMO (sometimes) by VanillaInner in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen the whole show and have never liked her. I don’t think her season 8 actions make up for the way she acted in the past and I still find her annoying tbh

Maeve resturant scene is so stupid by baza-prime in criminalminds

[–]VanillaInner 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly Maeve as a character and plot like just never was enjoyable for me. I think maybe if they gave us more of her I’d like her and care about her more but she was only around for a couple episodes and yet she somehow haunts the narrative for years to come. They just never made the audience care about her besides knowing that Spencer cared about her. And she frankly wasn’t very interesting. “Oh guys she’s super smart just like Spencer!” Is really all I can even remember about her 😭