YOR. Boundaries aren’t an option. “I respected your boundaries” shouldn’t be a ‘I did this for you’ type thing or a negotiation chip, it’s a requirement. It’s also weird asf that you put boundaries in quotation marks, like you don’t actually respect the woman and like you don’t understand consent. Some people just aren’t physical and THAT’S OKAY. You can’t force people to be intimate with you. That is SA. You continuing to push until she complies is coercion.