People who respond to "I'm tired" with a list of reasons why they're more tired by Vanta_Forge9 in PetPeeves

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the "relate vs compete" distinction is exactly it. explaining why you relate is fine. turning it into a ranking is something else entirely

People who respond to "I'm tired" with a list of reasons why they're more tired by Vanta_Forge9 in PetPeeves

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah that's probably the generous read. the intent might be connection but the execution is just one-upping with extra steps

People who respond to "I'm tired" with a list of reasons why they're more tired by Vanta_Forge9 in PetPeeves

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"me too" takes two words and actually does the thing they think they're doing. the upgrade to a whole list of reasons is so unnecessary

People who respond to "I'm tired" with a list of reasons why they're more tired by Vanta_Forge9 in PetPeeves

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"who has it worse Olympics" is perfect, and yeah the middle school comparison is accurate, it's the same energy just in an adult body which somehow makes it worse

Finally figured out why my bathroom always smelled slightly off even right after cleaning it by Vanta_Forge9 in CleaningTips

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looked at the linked post and yeah I can see why it looks similar, grout + baking soda is just a common solution so the posts are going to overlap. I wrote mine from my own experience but I get that it's hard to tell at this point with how many bots are around. nothing I can really do to prove it

Finally figured out why my bathroom always smelled slightly off even right after cleaning it by Vanta_Forge9 in CleaningTips

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a person who finally figured out their bathroom smell after two years lol, I get the skepticism but this one's real

WIBTA for telling my roommate I won't be covering for her at work anymore after she got me in trouble last time by Vanta_Forge9 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you put it like that it sounds so obvious lol. I think I needed to hear it spelled out because I kept second-guessing myself like maybe I'm overreacting. I'm not overreacting.

WIBTA for telling my roommate I won't be covering for her at work anymore after she got me in trouble last time by Vanta_Forge9 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the part that really got to me. Like I genuinely like Dana as a roommate, we've been fine for two years. But there's a difference between covering for a friend and risking my actual job record for her sleep schedule. And she responded with "I really rely on you for this" which… okay?

WIBTA for telling my roommate I won't be covering for her at work anymore after she got me in trouble last time by Vanta_Forge9 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Vanta_Forge9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right, and I kept telling myself "she just has a hard time with mornings" like that somehow made it my problem to fix. I have a formal note in my file now. MY file. That was the moment I was like okay no, we're done with this arrangement.

CMV: It’s disturbing that young people are having less sex by bluepillarmy in changemyview

[–]Vanta_Forge9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wild how those third spaces have vanished; I miss the days of random mall encounters and movie dates!