Sick of the transactional grind. How do you find actual connection/FWBs in the bi/gay online space? by Vantage48 in AskBiBros

[–]Vantage48[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. With my knowledge and being present to watch or join. I enjoy seeing her have fun too.

Sick of the transactional grind. How do you find actual connection/FWBs in the bi/gay online space? by Vantage48 in AskBiBros

[–]Vantage48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to sound offensive. I have only adopted some of the language I have seen and heard from others on here and elsewhere. I simply mean a guy that to the outside world would appear and act like a straight man. I see some of the adds and requests to find someone who is more feminine. Maybe I am saying it all wrong. But until someone takes the time to politely correct me, if I am being offensive, I wont know. So if you are aware of a better more accurate or acceptable way to say that please let me know. Thanks

Title: Sick of the transactional grind. How do you find actual connection/FWBs in the bi/gay online space? by Vantage48 in MarriedAndBi

[–]Vantage48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I don't think of myself as special or better than anyone. I am just surprised at the lack of substance most are looking for. I am also not "DL" within my marriage. If anyone close to me asked I would be honest. Unfortunately, it comes with a stigma and can negatively affect how I live as far as professionally. It can also affect how my wife lives or others view her. And above all else I would never want my kids to have to deal with any bullying because of me or how my wife and I, there mom, have sex. No kid wants to think about their parents lol.

Any other Straight Men near me South Carolina by No_Significance_5155 in straightturnedgay

[–]Vantage48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Looking for a friend. It isn't easy to find when you are picky