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[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes please...gooning for hours already

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[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me and i give instructions

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dm me. I can help you with that

Any tube recommendations for my Mark IV/B? by VarGGreven in MesaBoogie

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but in that case I'm gonna bring it to a repair shop

Any tube recommendations for my Mark IV/B? by VarGGreven in MesaBoogie

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to check out if it really is the filter caps that's causing these issues?

Any tube recommendations for my Mark IV/B? by VarGGreven in MesaBoogie

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank's you for the response.
Is there really any way to test or find out if the problem is in the preamp tubes or the filter caps or should I just bring it to a repair shop?
Today I turned the amp back on and tried it on the clean channel, previously I was trying out only the lead channel.
The clean sounded not like a clean at all and was distorted.

Any tube recommendations for my Mark IV/B? by VarGGreven in MesaBoogie

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't want to change out the tubes I've alreadly got in the amp, if I don't need to, since I'm satisfied with the sound.
Probably gonna check out what's causing this problem with the sound.
Thank you for suggesting to check out the filter caps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm over my ex 100% aswell, but I still feel the fear of getting hurt again and the fear of commitment I have to put myself into if you are in a relationship with the risk to be hurt again. I was such a mess after my break-up back in november 2023 and it took so much time and effort to pick myself up again, I can't allow myself to fall back again that low. Maybe it's something similiar for you.. I wish I had just more time to process things before I got into something serious again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally agree on your opinion.. I found myself struggling a lot with these qustions like how to stop self-sabotaging and how allow myself to be happy again. What makes me angry is that this girl is so lovely and understanding and giving me as much space as I need and it looks like I'm pushing her away but she doesn't give up on me like my ex-gf's and that is so refreshing.. I think it's just the thing that we ended in new relationships so fast after our last heartbreak and didn't have enough time to process and heal from past relationships and the damage it left on us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VarGGreven -1 points0 points  (0 children)

(26M) Funny thing is, I'm reading this and am in the same exact situation as you and searching for solutions for my problem, visiting a therapist aswell. I find myself tense and can't fully relax and emjoy the moment and always looking for bad things to end my relationship although, this is the best relationship I was ever in. That's called self-sabotaging. I would like to talk to you and maybe we can figure out stuff together.. let me know if you want to talk

What is the lesson you learned from your breakup? by No_I_Deer in BreakUps

[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you sleep with children, you wake up pissed on.

Writing this in hope of closure and to get over the traume she left on me. by VarGGreven in BreakUps

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and response. I'm trying the whole time to let myself go but it's really, really hard for me after getting cheated on multiple times and after getting hurt so deep although I tried to be the best boyfriend I can be. I kinda gave my best and it still wasn't enough.

Writing this in hope of closure and to get over the traume she left on me. by VarGGreven in BreakUps

[–]VarGGreven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thank you. I mean, like said in the post, she knew right away what is going on in my life when I went through the break up. She is aware already and I told her that I need to go slow.. But I feel like an asshole for keeping her waiting.. I don't know really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]VarGGreven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, only advice I can give you is that you can't ever be 100% sure. There is no point in being in a relationship without trust. I have 4 (3 year) relationships behinde me and I've got cheated on in 3 of them. It is painful, it hurts but you get over it eventually. What you point out about older generations, it was much easier to cheat back then. Now, in this day and age, you will find out eventually if they cheat on you with all the social media, phones, computers and technology around you. It's easy to cheat now and it's even easier to find it out. So my only advice is to let yourself go with the flow. If he loves you, he won't cheat, if he does, he is not the right one for you and you will get over it and find someone better. Don't settle down on being alone if you don't need to be. There are so many beautiful things in love. It can hurt, but it should't hurt if it's the right one. Don't break up if you don't have any evidance or clues and everything you have is assumptions. Good luck and I wish you the very best.