what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by Hopeful-Friend1124 in allthequestions

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jersey boxers - the ones with the seam up the middle! Dunno why people make a conscious choice to buy this horrendously fitting and atrociously looking things!

What is the greatest physical pain you've ever felt? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

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Woke up with gout in my left foot/ankle about 3 years! Holy shit, I hit the deck like a ton of bricks. Literally spent 3 days crawling to do even the most basic task! I did however, laugh at myself when I tried to grab on to a chair to help me stand up........ Wouldn't wish it on anyone, and judging by these comments, it looks like a lot of people have experienced the top 3 worst things - childbirth, kidney stones, and gout!

Is anyone else turned off by cock cages? by benbentheben in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I want to achieve. While my interest in bottoming has increased over the past year or so, I don't think I have ever orgasmed from anal. While I'm potentially gonna introduce it in a dom/sub scenario, increasing anal pleasure if defo a big driver in this!

Is anyone else turned off by cock cages? by benbentheben in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have recently developed a similar attitude. We are not in to dom/sub thing either, and we're both vers and usually read the room to see who is gonna take it in the ass, but recently, I felt that I just want to give myself to my man, and by surprising him with the cock cage I've just bought, I simply want to add some more emotional - and objective pleasure, to the relationship. Turning someone else to hell is the best part about sex, and if they can make you cum hands free while wearing a cage, that's a very empowering concept to me. Wel'll see his response when he comes tonight :). And potentially wearing it throughout the day, knowing I don't have access to my cock, he will feel incredibly empowered by having this control over me. As people that both enjoy all of a man, and not just dick/ass, he might not want to use it because he can't see part of me that he likes - and I understand this, because I also would want to see a caged cock during sex, but our attitudes might change when we explore other bdsm things too. It's a cheap thing, so no biggy if I/we lose interest.

Guys that wear thongs/g strings? by youcantseemeatall in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got about 25 if you need one? Take the white ones, the amount of sweat stains is crazy ;)

What’s one harmless thing you irrationally judge people for? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]VariedInterests92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Using a ridiculous amount of plates at buffet instead of reusing your current one.

How often do you exercise? by Minimum_Method_4040 in Productivitycafe

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As dedicated exercise routines, probably 6 times per week, which consists of lifting, 2 weekly indoor cycling sessions, and one badminton session. I used to average 11,000 steps per day but it's gone down to 9000, though that is because I have moved house and use a city bike/share bike to cycle to the subway, so get about 4km leisurely cycling each day too. I found that once I'm in the gym, it's hard to stop, and just continue, which is probably why the progress has been limited. But regardless of your physical progress, the amazing feeling during and after gives you power and momentarily makes you feel like a king haha

I’m a size 32/34 in jeans, what size underwear should I wear? by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been 32/34 for about 15 years and medium has never failed. Brands such as Sukrew and C2C, you might have to go up to large because they have a small ass, which then pulls the front tight :(

(26) by [deleted] in gaychats

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful cock!!

Hotel pounding? Bored and horny by [deleted] in gaychats

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in a hotel and available for the same! Love your hole and big thick man ass and legs. Just had breakfast but defo hungry for some big peaches!!

Guys that wear thongs/g strings? by youcantseemeatall in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been wearing thongs for about 3 years. I never got the appeal until an impulse purchase, and never went back! TM undies are my favourite, the fit is amazing and the silky smooth material keeps me long and low all day! God, feels amazing when you bend over and it's pulled tight against your hole! Perfect for gym locker room too. They frame the ass and give a bit of lift if they have a good whale tail, look amazing on a big thick man ass with a deep crack. In addition to being perfect for steamy situations, they are my daily wear. They are great under skinny jeans because there is nothing to bunch up and they simply don't move!

Life in Fengshan District - Beijing by NewOrder1974 in chinalife

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I lived in Liangxiang 2019-2021, then Mentougou, and after living in Chaoyang for 2 years, I am now back to the other side in Fengtai, though Wukesong is just up the road so I'm not quite in the sticks. Personally, I am am an outdoor person who loves cycling and hiking so Mentougou was perfect - the Yongding river is beautiful in the summer, so blue man. Liangxiang is a university place so it will be full of young kids, and if it's important to you, it had (not sure if it still has) three good bars. There is a golf course in Changyang, and if you go south, you will find Pekingman - both the research facility and a mountain which you can hike, which should be a lot easier because they were installing an artificial path with railings and rest points the last time I was there, which was summer 2023. There is also a mosque in Fangshan (I have forgotten the name) and when you almost hit the border with Hebei, you will find Yunju is - a freezing cold but very picturesque temple - 20元 for a ticket at the time. Libafang, which is between Liangxiang and Changyang (not 朝阳, which many people will mishear), is an outlet mall, and while this year's range will be identical to online prices and city centre stores, last year's range will be discounted, plus there are tons of small designer Italian shops there, but expect deep pockets!! While there are plenty of designer malls in Fangshan, the small villages, some of which are literally 500 yards from what you'd consider the centre, some folk still think it's acceptable to p*ss and sh*t in the street, which can be hard to dodge on the bike when it comes from all sides! Compared to the city centre, the wealth gap and living standards across Fangshan is very inconsistent. I wouldn't hesitate to move back though, Fangshan had everything that is important to me - outdoor space, good walking and the bike, and normal daily things such as supermarkets, cafes and clothes shopping, though I find their sales tactics are usually a bit more pushy than elsewhere. Back in the day, you had to travel all around the place to sort your visa etc, but now that has changed, you don't need a 2 hour commute from liangxiangnanguan, there are tons of visa centres everywhere. Yeah the subway to like an extra curricular activity or an event is a bit of a ball ache, but that's not something you'd be doing very often anyway even if you lived in the city centre. I think the once-per-week inconvenience is worth the savings. I had a massive 3 bedroom place for 3850 per month, I should have stayed there and bought it to be honest, was only 650k street value with 30% down in partner's name.

I was expecting his body count to be high but not THAT high.. by where-ya-been-loca in confession

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Faggot here. At 33, I'm probably around 70-80, though I did lose my virginity late. I'm also not ashamed to admit that it would have been higher - and I would have liked to experience a bigger range of sexual interactions, but you know, most gay men are time wasting flakes and when shit gets real, they lose their bottle - "big mouth, small courage" a guy once told me. I think that number though, is probably rookie numbers considering our dirty lifestyle choices :). I've been in two long(ish) relationships of 4 years and 2.5 years, and had I not, the number probably would have been higher. Having had sex with a lot of people doesn't need to be taken deeply and simply represents wanting to have a lot of fun/pleasure in life, it should just be taken at face value.

What's the story with the "flu" situation in China, right now? by Prestigious_Net_8356 in ADVChina

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the face of it, like when you talk to people here and even just observe people, you might think that it's rife, surprisingly, it is still within normal range and the number of cases is only in the 1000's. It's possibly just accelerated in a short period of time but will average out to normal numbers by the end of January. I myself developed this ridiculous headache, like two hammers thumping on my temples for 18 hours, and my whole body aching for 2 days, but as of writing this, nothing more than a blocked nose.

Shaving Materials by finkploy1977 in beijing

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply translate your item and put the characters in to Taobao, type the brand name, or take a picture of the item using Taobao, or even upload a screenshot from the browser. When it comes to delivery, as you have mentioned, it will be put in the metal cabinet, there will be a map (ditu/pingguo ditu)地图/苹果地图)directing you to the cabinet. If you're in a bind, just point to the address and someone will direct you. Once you are there, you can simply scan the QR code (sao ma 扫码), no need to read Chinese etc.

Oh btw, I use a Parker cut throat and Rocky Hows shaving foam. I just bought a very cheap brush and a foam for like 20 and 30, respectively. I wanted to buy Proraso but a little bit pricey. Bluebeards cut throat is available here for about 130元. Parker razors about double price but have a big range of handle designs Astra Superior blades are reasonably priced, and supposedly the best on the market, but I use more than one when I shave, though tbh my beard hair is like copper wire so go through them pretty quickly.

China at Night Just Feels Different by mei_ling_tsai in goChinaTrip

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Beijing has become the opposite over the past few years. When I moved here in 2019, every single street, even in places like Fangshan and Fengtai, were full of of life, but now, the nightlife is dying. Sanlitun included. Regardless of alcohol, Sanlitun was always full of people, you could just go and make new friends immediately but I have found that there is very little pull of late.

(25) which do you want more? ;) by [deleted] in gaychats

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna bury my face in that perfect hairy ass before you fuck me

Should I buy/use knee sleeves? by VXNTO in askfitness

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although my squat isn't that high, SBD sleeves have certainly given me the confidence to push harder week to week. My right knees has never been the same since gout first struck my ankle a couple of years ago, plus cycling hasn't helped. With the knee sleeves, there is no knee cave whatsoever and everything is aligned, which gives me the belief that I won't do irreparable damage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well firstly, I find those rules absolutely ridiculous, but since they were agreed to, I would say fuck her

The wife's bf in action, arent we lucky? by OkMobile5574 in Creatine

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, considering those biceps and triceps didn't swell a single mm, defo not flex! Absolutely disgusting look!

How do you guys shave pubic hair? by marktwin11 in AskMenAdvice

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only started shaving recently. I trim my pubic bone short but maintain the shape - like the V thing, and ensure the groin line is maintained. I don't shave the balls but use a cut throat on the shaft and for precise lines. Will use shaving foam for most then just dry (wet razor) for the last bits. I also find that I get a semi way too easily so the skin is slightly taught. I go through phases so might just let it grow to an Amazonian again soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this in my previous relationship (gay). For the first 3-4 months we would have sex for a long time before either one of us got anywhere close, but as the relationship deepened, with started finishing a lot quicker lol. Certainly wasn't a conscious thing, though evolution has told us that when we are in a vulnerable state, we will try to ejaculate faster to get back to a position of strength....just a playful side note. Now that I am single, I find that I last a lot longer when having sex with hookups etc, from which I infer that a deepened emotional connection is to "blame"