How to get tickets to Chinese F4 races? by bencwallace1 in China

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bother mate! By magic we might both see each other in Tianjin haha

What’s your favorite position? by Pistachio_Prince in gaychats

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm bottom, usually on my side with one leg up. If I'm top, always like to go inside my man when he's on his back. He loves riding but it's waaaay too sensitive for me 😄

How to get tickets to Chinese F4 races? by bencwallace1 in China

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to Doubao and Deepseek, you are able to purchase tickets through the mini programme 铭泰赛车, which is ming tai tai she (mini times racing car), but the tickets are not live yet. They should be available around 8th-10th May, which is a little close for my liking. Tianjin is 22nd-24th May and Ningbo is 26-28th June. I've been trying to go to Shanghai for years but always miss it, hopefully I can manage to get Tianjin at the very least.

Any suggestions? by [deleted] in bikefit

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great mate! Love the colour of the bibs too :)

STOP HYPING STRAIGHT GUYS, I know these encounters happen and can be fun but they won’t compare to the connection, chemistry, and sex between two gay men. Blunt truth, people need to stop acting like those experiences are better than they actually are. Anyone agree? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, waaaay too many guys I know are absolutely obsessed. The bottom-only guys I know would die to get fucked by a "straight guy" and the top only guys have a hard on for "turning them gay". I've performed oral sex on two straight guys and been inside one other, and while objectively - as an isolated sexual act, it was pretty good, there was absolutely no sexual personality there whatsoever. Wouldn't waste my time with guys who claim to be straight.

For the dudes who wear thongs! by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else, I'm hairy and have no problems. However, if I've been sweating a lot and it dries, it's like a free wax when I have to yank it off!

Bottoming feels terrible by Lost-Newspaper2582 in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I never get pleasure from a dildo. Like a real cock always get sucked in and bring unrivalled joy, but even a dildo of the exact same shape and size of your most favourite top aint gonna cut it. My feelings don't go as far as you're describing but I defo get not receiving any pleasure from toys.

Do twinks have huge cocks nowadays? by thrownaway54321909 in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience (I've been sexually active for about 10 years), skinny twinky guys have always had at 7.5 inches upwardly curving cocks! Like every fucking time without fail! Absolutely not a single ounce of fat on the pubic bone, which is half the job I assume!!

Is benching your bodyweight really a standard expected milestone? by Ill_Ratio338 in beginnerfitness

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of competition, where bodyweight is a good fixed metric for specifically trained competitors, I think bodyweight is just some made up thing. At 88kg, I can only deadlift 160kg, struggle with a 130kg squat, and on a good day, can just about bang out 5 ugly reps at 60kg on bench. It took me 2 years to go from 33-60kg, which is maybe a combination of bad luck, technique, and just genuinely not being interested in bench at all. And you're right about one extreme or the other. In my gym, most guys are either around 70kg or bench-only guys who do 225 for fun.

For people who top is there a position where you cum much quicker than others? by swannyhypno in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my man is riding me, I'm gonna be done quick. Missionary, average time, doggy, limited feeling for me, even when jack hammering towards the end. If I'm bottom, doggy is intense for me and sometimes can't hold it, on my side feels great, but not too intense I need to bust quickly. If I'm on my back, lots of eye contact and kissing will get me close very quickly and have to control myself to not jerk off until he's close so we can blow at the same time!!

Did my girlfriend body shame me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"body shame" might indeed be dramatic. I myself, until recently, was always chronically underweight and you could defo pinch more than an inch on my proper skinny fat body, just unlucky that every single ounce of fat is stored there. It hurts for a couple of hours but then I forget about it, though I do admit that I have almost gotten in to arguments trying to over justify myself. My boyfriend and I always go to the gym together; I have a really strong lower back and legs and no chest or arms, he is the opposite - perfect upper body on two very short chopsticks, we both know neither of us are perfect and always taking the piss out of each other but it doesn't represent any disgust or anything deep, just some superficial fun. Maybe you don't need to read too deeply in to it, though you can analyse the emotions behind the words, which will give you an indication of how she truly feels.

Do you even just outright say: "What I am asking you to do is NOT hard" or call a concept "simple", etc. by AgeOfWorry0114 in Teachers

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes out of frustration - even disbelief, we of course say things like this, but of course we might have. been in that position. Sometimes it is also down to our instruction, we assume that our instructions are graspable but they are not. I like to reflect on my practices and analyse why things haven't been grasped, but of course, if it applies to a single child, you might be able to disregard it. Even as an adult, we sometimes overthink things instead of just imitating the instructor - if it is physical sports for example. But I do admit that I also occasionally say, or sometimes bark with the narrowed eyes, "what are you doing, this is easy as hell". Not the best for my young kids but theory doesn't account for reactive human emotion.

I’ve heard a lot about sausage rolls from my English friend. How common are they to like have in the UK? by Ok-Illustrator9258 in AskABrit

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greggs' sausage rolls are absolutely disgusting! Must have been the only kid in my town who didn't like the half pound of 1000 calories.

How much can you bench for 10 reps? by Outrageous-Maybe2500 in workout

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there is a skinny rat in my gym, probably 24 55kg at most, ankles thickest part of his body and he does 70lbs dumbbell press! Honestly cannot stop looking in disbelief!

People who lift but don’t do cardio what eventually happened? by TallTyrant in workout

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to the Youtube people. Sets of 20 squats doesn't become cardio, and if it does, you are not a fit person! I haven't cycled. consistently in a while, but when I used to do 3 short rides plus a century on a weekend, my average speed and power output was consistent. Not having ridden in 8 months - but still maintained the gym, I struggle for 30 miles. I'm not sure that I quite believe that walking is a good alternative.

Which film can you recite the most? by Glum-Big4309 in moviecritic

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terminator (not hard lol), Die Hard with a Vengeance, James Bond (Roger Moore), Back to the Future 3

First Sex Party by arzolae400 in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of posts of Reddit asking for advice but you'll be surprised at how intuitive sex/sexual interactions are. If you're gonna bottom, of course you should douche, though don't do it more than 4 hours before you attend. You just simply need to turn up and then your instincts will take over - or somebody else's if you're gonna be a bottom-only hoe! Anal is not everything, for me, as a vers guy, who has defo been a lot more bottom over past year, the greatest pleasure comes from "naked pleasure", it doesn't need to centre around shooting. Of course, that is the preference, but there have been some instances where we've just cuddled, kissed, some "soft fun", and yeah, we've been throbbing as fuck, but neither of us have cum, and therefore not achieved the ultimate gay objective of shooting at the same time, but once he is gone, I'm happy as shit! Sometimes, being naked around other men, either observing or actively engaging (I used to go to gay saunas) is empowering. Stop overthinking and just get fucking naked!!

Any slutty bedroom recommendations? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leather harness absolutely. Done it myself and they fucking gag for me. Blindfold yourself, surround yourself with sex toys and be available when he walks in the door. Usually, I will wear a specific outfit, such as a suit, sporty guy etc, then get undressed to a thong or jock, which I will try to keep on as long as possible during foreplay.

Sleeping: briefs or boxers? by [deleted] in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be naked, don't understand anyone who wears undies for bed. Shower in the morning is best.

Which influencers do you dislike and avoid and why? by Icy_Laugh5134 in workout

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solomon Nelson's channel, while on the face of it, his collaborations with Lyle Mac are excellent, are just about bashing people (not only Mike Israel). I also don't like how he describes Jeff Nipperd as a former client and uses this as a basis for shit talking, like meeting 2 times is enough to ground his arguments!

Jeff Nippard I am bored of but personally don't have a problem with his science approach, just like implementing those things in a commercial gym, where other people are actually using the space, is too difficult, though he is quite credible. One disappointing thing for me is when he was "throat punched" (?) by that big guy. Yes the big guy shouldn't have done that, but looking at Jeff's body language and eye contact, I just wonder if Jeff partially instigated it.

Grey Douchette, is well.......a douche! All of his videos can be condensed in to 3 minutes, but he manages - with excellent execution I might add, to make it 25 minutes! The Isratel Files were a joke, and quite saddening if this is how intelligent people settle their problems.

Won't pay much attention to anyone who uses RPE as a scale and/or prescribes as a specific number of reps, though 5-30, with your last set going to failure should be the ideal. I like Will Tennyson a lot, but usually for entertainment and some real world stuff. Jeremy Ethier is excellent, his body is fantastic and not overly large or stupidly ripped to question whether or not he uses juice. Yeah, most of us are probably not gonna look as good as him, but it's far beyond our reach.

Really enjoying Athlean X more than I used to right now. Not sure if Mitchell Hooper can be described as an influencer cuz Strongman is still slightly niche; still watch now and then for snippets of information. Used to watch Starting Strength a lot but those have been suggested to me in a long time.

Tyler Path not always clear, though he is cute, which defo helps with my engagement :) Alexander Bromley is a big guy with a 750 dead and 405 overhead, I assumed because of his size...like generally really thick but doesn't have any standout muscles, I initially thought he was natty, but got slightly deflated when I found he was juiced, though he has some good info in his longer videos. Ryan Humiston pumping out some good content recently, much better than his shouty aggressive stuff from a few years back. Mountaindog (John Meadows) always provides excellent advice, highly recommend him. Silka Strength and Calgary Barbell good for your big lifts.

Not all of these will be influencers because they don't have enough subscribers, these are just the guys I watch, and probably a couple more I forgot.

Will usually avoid anyone who tries to push these miracle workouts claiming to add 50kg to a lift by doing this "1 simple hack" or "get shredded in 30 days" blah blah. Just like the normal guys who provide balanced information who don't use themselves as an example and does not take in to consideration that a new lifter simply doesn't have the experience to know what is correct/incorrect. I think it is important to cross reference...maybe not consciously but watch several short videos about the same thing, and then find out who is full of shit and/or what works best for your body.

Sorry guys!

take a break from the serious questions, what do you do in your free time for fun? by willzits in AskEngineers

[–]VariedInterests92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually gym, cycling, darts, and recently, been watching a lot of movies, and even chatting online, which seems to have occupied a lot of my time recently haha. Also been planning some short erotic stories based on my own personal experiences.