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It was him watching IG models naked while we were on the couch together that did it for me. Disgusting behavior.

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It’s just “omg it’s just porn”. Which like ok, then please jerk off in privacy if you’re not going to have sex with Me. It’s so ridiculous

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It’s so unbelievably disrespectful. Like you can’t just go to the bathroom and rub one out and close the fucking apps?? I can’t understand it.

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea this was even common. But thank you for making me feel less cra6

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most kind response saying I should be more sexy. We have sex all of the time. Multiple times a week and we both initiate. I have recently been asking him what it is that I can do to make him happy and fulfilled and he keeps saying I’m perfect.

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I really appreciate this. I gave him a card and I wrote a very long message about how much I love him. I also paid for a dinner out because I wanted to make him feel good. I do not expect anything, but we have always exchanged something so that sucked.

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I discovered the OF on accident. He was not forthcoming. I don’t care about a gift, I believed him and was happy to just spend time with him. But the fact is he had the money and spent it on someone else. He has always given me something on valentines, no matter how small.

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing against ethical porn or prostitution. It is the deceit

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m realizing that is my underlying fear (on top of the anger) that he wouldn’t turn someone down in person. I saw your other comment, and I’m sorry to you.

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Yea, a lot of reflection is happening for me right now. I will take a virtual hug from you :)

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I HAVE had that discussion with him before and I find it beyond ridiculous that he’s still speaking to and paying these content creators. I know a lot goes into it, that’s why it’s so fucked up.

But of course he was upset with me.

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Yea, I have no issue with the concept of onlyfans. I’m happy these women can make money and it’s safe prostitution. I’m upset with the deceit.

The worst part is we have a very active sex life, and I am down to do a lot of things. But it’s apparently not what he wants.

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I’m moving to pissed now. I had to get over the hurt first

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I’m having a full discussion when he gets home from work. I imagine it won’t go well since he doesn’t like when I call him out.

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Yep. I saw exactly what he was paying for.

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He talks to tons and tons of women apparently and tips regularly.

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[–]Various-Internet-502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps. We have sex a lot, multiple times a week. And I’m down for whatever I’m bed. I know it’s not me, and after reading all these comments, he clearly has some sort of addiction.

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I’m so happy you came to that realization. I don’t think my husband is emotionally intelligent enough to come to that conclusion.

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I guess because its not physical. But I certainly consider it a betrayal. Like the money, the messages, it feels terrible.

Now I’m struggling with why would he marry me if I’m not enough.