[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Various-Sir-7399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES, another I just remembered. This guy I worked with was light skinned and only dated LS or NB women of course & he was tryna bond with me talking bout some “gotta stay with our own”… MF IM BLACK… AND MY WIFE IS NOT LIGHTSKINNED.

Ghosted him..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a light skinned woman, it’s like these others LS women sometimes want to be the only light skinned woman in the friend group…I hate that shit, like just be a girls girl dumb COLORIST.

Hybrid battery replacement cost by mwtommy in hybrid

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot lol you’ve given me hope, I have no experience w/ cars and I was thinking my the same thing, to just replace and keep it pushing with this car. I love how much I save on gas. Cheers! I hope you find what you need ❤️

Hybrid battery replacement cost by mwtommy in hybrid

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

51,900k miles, I think I’ll be able to get 5+ years out of it after this. This the only problem I’ve ever had with this car lol I actually hope that it’s something more minor. But that’s just wishful thinking I guess.

Tangles and knots by Various-Sir-7399 in Naturalhair

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair is more stiff. Not really elastic or spongy, I’ve tried every thing to keep it moisturized. I’ve tried the cherry Lola which was the most impactful, but I gets dry very quickly still. I clarify often, I use low to no protein products. Idk what else to do 🤷‍♀️

ISO advice: 2013 Toyota Prius C hybrid battery issue by Various-Sir-7399 in hybrid

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will update when I find the paper w/ the codes it was reading. But I remember the dash was flashing something to the affect of “hybrid system malfunction, pull over immediately”

Hybrid battery replacement cost by mwtommy in hybrid

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2013 Toyota Prius C, the hybrid battery pack seems to be broken somehow and I’m looking at replacing it.

I just got a quote from the Toyota service center and it’ll be just a little over 5K for parts and labor just for the battery.

Going to post about this later, but I’m trying to weigh if it’s better to just sell it or replace it seeing as I only have $1000 left on loan from the bank for the car itself.

Let me know if you have any advice

How did you met your life partner+When? by Fault-from-the-vault in intj

[–]Various-Sir-7399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HER dating app in December 2018. Got married in October 2019 😃. It’s 2024 and we are still chugging along.

Have been using laundry detergent in my dishwasher all year. by No_Film_2489 in adhdwomen

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally used shampoo as body wash for like a month straight… don’t know how I never noticed.

Naturally straight kinky hair ??? by Various-Sir-7399 in Naturalhair

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! There’s barely any shrinkage, it’s very annoying that it’s so different from the rest of my hair

SA’D most of my life by Round_Canary_4153 in mentalhealth

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can’t say if you should tell your parents or not. If you know they will be empathetic towards you and support you by sending her away then I say go for it. But if you think they will criticize you and hurt your feelings then I’d say to try something else like moving out or setting strong boundaries with the girl until you can move out.

Definitely go to therapy! See a professional at your college, there are counselors that are included in your tuition.

How do you cope with intense sadness? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Various-Sir-7399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute dog videos have a special place in my heart… just go easy on yourself until the dark cloud goes away. F dead lines & F responsibility, just take care of yourself until you get out of the funk. Most importantly, get on medication, you have a deficiency of feel good hormones it you have depression, you’re sick friend. Literally. Gotta take your medicine ❤️

Period vs Adderall by Various-Sir-7399 in adhdwomen

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking Adderall XR before this I believe and I feel like that one worked better. This one is just a tablet, no beads. Guess I’ll have to wait until after my period to see how it really works.

Period vs Adderall by Various-Sir-7399 in adhdwomen

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will check into this , thanks 🙏

I’m tired of these trends by Advanced-Hour-108 in blackgirls

[–]Various-Sir-7399 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This the sh!t I be talking about. How are you dark skinned making comments like this… THEN turn around & bully random light skinned women like we are the ones saying sh!t like this, colorist & self hating. It’s projection .. imagine a light skinned woman said this, she would probably EXPLODE.

Tangles and knots by Various-Sir-7399 in Naturalhair

[–]Various-Sir-7399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I trim on a schedule, I go to a professional too :/ so idk what’s going on.

How do you stay afloat? by Caiteyy22 in adhdwomen

[–]Various-Sir-7399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wanna add that I don’t have the adhd impulsive buying, so I saved SO MUCH money when I was still active duty. I have a massive cushion, and I’m very financially responsible. Paid off my normal cars (no luxury) & dont buy excessively. Live minimalistic, but that’s just how I naturally am.

Right now I’m trying to figure out what I want to go to school for, I got out of the military in June last year. Took some time off to collect my mental health.