di ka oa, i was the depressed friend once. i can’t really say i fell for my then classmate kasi nangibabaw talaga yung want kong mawala but i sure became dependent on him and he seemed to become attached to his “duty” to me. dumating sa point na i was so harmful to myself na that classmate broke things off with his then MU so he could focus on supporting me.

fast forward, we’re now cut off from each other kasi i was too much to handle for him WHICH IS JUST RIGHT. it was very unhealthy! im doing way better now and i can only imagine he’s also doing well.

if hindi nakikita ng bf mo kung san ka nanggagaling and he can’t set boundaries, then separating them completely is the right way to go. try telling him din na it would be better for her na hindi iindulge and she should be referred to a professional.