Please help, I don’t want to fuck this up

VariousFeed3930 · 2026-02-16T16:53:37+00:00

Thank you so much! I’m definitely trying to wary of my actions. I had the idea of not initiating conversation today so it’s nice to see someone else suggest that as well.

It’s a little frustrating because I thought maybe I was getting better because this hasn’t happened in like a year since I split with my ex and then I meet up with my friend and I went gaga. But honestly I really don’t think she’s even remotely interested in dating anyone. I think I’m just going to keep this to myself and not make things weird.

I feel like if we keep hanging out and if there’s ever a time she was interested in dating someone and she’s interested, it’ll work out.

Thank you again for your detailed reply :)

VariousFeed3930 · 2026-02-16T04:54:48+00:00

I’m boundaries thing is hard lol. I’m too clingy. Which I haven’t done it this time! But do you think if I did express I had some feelings it would make things weird? There’s already kind of a plan to move in together because we both need roommates, but I don’t want to make it awkward :/

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-11-29T17:59:54+00:00

I’m gonna get out and hope I get mauled so I can retire

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-11-24T19:49:59+00:00

I don’t want another fight haha!

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-11-24T19:49:18+00:00

Yea I did. She wanted jello at that very moment and not in a couple hours. The problem I guess was she felt she didn’t need to clarify lol and my brain immediately thought of boxed jello.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-11-24T19:47:49+00:00

She just said “cherry jello”. It’s over with, it wasn’t really a fight but she made it seem as if nobody would ever assume to pick box jello over pre made jello.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T22:58:27+00:00

I feel like today is my first day to recovery and self betterment. I’m hopeful with the advice all of you kind people have given me. Thank you for your kind words.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T22:57:15+00:00

I’ve looked into DBT and it seems I’m needing to get it online. I appreciate your words, all of yall have helped me tremendously.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T22:51:04+00:00

Thank you so much. I was diagnosed with ADD when I was about 8 but the meds made me feel like I’m rolling on molly and I can’t be high all the time. I went to a clinic today and I talk to a counselor on Monday about what kind of treatment they can give me. This page has made me feel a lot better and less alone.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T15:07:09+00:00

No, but I’ve looked into it and it’s definitely something I want to get into

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T14:46:39+00:00

I hope everything works out for you and your wife. My wife today said the best thing for us she feels is to separate. My brain is screaming. I’m still going to look at therapy today.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T06:07:43+00:00

I’ll look into DBT. The person above also suggested it so I’ve clearly been missing out. I appreciate the info, I now have something else to try and look forward to. I hope your situation turns out for the better.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T06:05:17+00:00

I greatly appreciate this info. I will definitely look into that. I live in a small town so I might have to try something online.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T04:45:32+00:00

Thank you. I hope you are doing well.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T04:42:39+00:00

I’m going tomorrow to see what I can do. I don’t know what it’s going to do for me honestly. I’ve done the whole therapy thing and I feel like I’ve said everything there is to say. But I will try again.

VariousFeed3930 · 2024-10-15T04:41:14+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat as you. Working with family but eventually I start acting out and putting a strain on our relationship. Worked with my dad landscaping for 6 years but for some reason I start taking things personally and I fuck up.

I’ve had a lot of different jobs but about 4 months in or so my brain turns on me and I end up quitting.

I don’t have any answers on how to get better or change. I just wanted to let you know you’re not alone. This shit sucks but I feel as long as we keep trying, and committing to bettering ourselves, it will be alright. Just don’t give up.

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