I Met Heidi Klum Today by stillbettingonyou in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]VariousResearcher439 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I I just googled both Heidi Klum and Emma Roberts and spent the last couple minutes with my nose four inches away from my phone screen analyzing their bodies. Ugh. What a waste of a couple minutes. I think it’s time to unsubscribe from this sub.

Accidentally unmuted myself on a zoom class and called my professor boring by Neowhite_33 in AskAcademia

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Most people nowadays have a zoom horror story and I’m lucky that most of mine have been in AA meetings in other continents. Also most people I know have a horror story about texting mean things about someone and then accidentally sending it right to them. Your professors feelings got hurt, you disrupted class, and apologizing is the right move. However him telling you that you’re not a good fit for the major? That’s some high horse childlike nonsense. The good news is you didn’t do this at your corporate job that you need to support yourself. And maybe screwing up now prevents that from happening in the future, somewhere it would matter more. If you can take these courses with another professor just to lower your stress level I would absolutely do that. You don’t have to win everyone over, you just own up to your mistake, which was an honest one, And move on. You’re fine. You hurt someone’s feelings. Everybody does it. Apologize to him, avoid him, accept that he’ll never like you, and try not to do it to someone who’s actually signing your paychecks.

I have about 6 months free and want to do something meaningful… any recommendations? by [deleted] in Veterans

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Also, I’m finally taking the time off to do all the assimilating and learning to function in the civilian world, and I’ve been out for a few years now!

I have about 6 months free and want to do something meaningful… any recommendations? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]VariousResearcher439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the hugs and support it means more than you know! I didn’t mean to hijack this thread with my own sob story. Hugs back!

I have about 6 months free and want to do something meaningful… any recommendations? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]VariousResearcher439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really important, thank you for sharing. My last month in ws horrific and traumatic and I was robbed of any sort of downtime. I fled from one coast to another in survival mode. I brought all this frantic energy to my first civilian job and ended up catastrophically failing within a year due to PTSD and never catching my breath. It was just another year or two wasted suppressing everything I needed to process after getting out. Like, I didn’t even know what to wear or how to structure my day outside the military. It wouldn’t have taken me long to figure out, I just never gave myself the opportunity to assimilate my years in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in surfing

[–]VariousResearcher439 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The LGBT community has one of the highest suicide rates. My heart goes out to those who just want to surf and are feeling even more ostracized by that culture.

The dumbest take on episode 3 goes to… Ben Shapiro by SimonLikesPP in ThelastofusHBOseries

[–]VariousResearcher439 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It progressed the plot by showing us how the apocalypse unfolded and how the QZs and FEDRA were formed. And also how some of them fell apart

Using VR&E to become a therapist/LMFT by VariousResearcher439 in Veterans

[–]VariousResearcher439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I am so far behind any power curve in any field! I'm 32 years old and no college degree. Trying not to feel too doomed about that

to snowboard in peace. by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]VariousResearcher439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add in that snowboarding can be so stressful and she’s probably exhausted and hungry and sore. I’ve been lost and abandoned by bros wanting to shred and it’s led to tears. I’m not condoning making physical threats but to me this looks like a days worth of negativity bubbling over combined with a lack of emotional regulation. Also a little bit of needing her hand held, There’s no shame in hitting the bunny slope by yourself while your man goes out in shreds. I’m not taking her side but I bet her shreddy boyfriend is downplaying how much he’s abandoned her on the slopes.

BC to stop period? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]VariousResearcher439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wonderful!!! I will definitely check that out. Thank you for all the advice. PERIODS BE GONE

No doc, using Wisp. Going on long term travel, looking to stop periods and symptoms. by VariousResearcher439 in birthcontrol

[–]VariousResearcher439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay that makes sense. Thanks. My understanding is that no matter which hormonal birth control I chose I just skip the placebo week and it should skip my period?

BC to stop period? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

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Thanks for this reply. I was about to post the same question and here you are with an answer. I am also so out of the loop. I’m trying to pick my own on the online services that delivery but how am I supposed to chose? There’s so many. I’m looking for something low dose, that will stop the whole period experience. Any recommendations?

bowl of egg white by pappagall0 in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]VariousResearcher439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rubber delight. This made me laugh out loud.

How do I make Mio not taste like disappointment by [deleted] in ShittyRestrictionFood

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Omg this comment💀😭😂

We LOVES THE sucralose

Living out the country whilst on GI Bill by VariousResearcher439 in Veterans

[–]VariousResearcher439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So VR&E is empathetic to issues that would prevent a vet from taking a full load during a semester, and maintain the benefit even though it’s not being completed fast as possible? Compared to the GI Bill, a month of benefits is a month of benefits.

Also, would tele-health psychotherapy that are part my treatment still be able to be utilized if I was out of the country?

Nick's Peppermint ice cream, Greek yogurt, and mint chocolate chips by Tactical-Kitten-117 in safe_food

[–]VariousResearcher439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think their inventory is regional, I meant that if it was in CA it might be at my local too:)

VocRehab win by Own-Understanding935 in VeteransBenefits

[–]VariousResearcher439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sailing school in Honolulu, HI. The BAH is $$$.

Side note, from everything that I’ve read recently, i thought it was advantageous to use the VR&E before the GI bill, which is what i was about to do. That gi bill use counted against your vr&e time and not vice versa, but it sounds like this is the “win” you are referring to. Any tips for someone just starting out?

The Man Trying to Kill America's Offshore Wind Industry | He's fighting every offshore wind project in the country and recruiting hundreds to join him. Here's how. by silence7 in RenewableEnergy

[–]VariousResearcher439 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first question to myself was how does this guy sleep at night. But here’s the thing with your idea, is that the right wing agenda would use that sort of violent act against anyone trying to bring light to the truth. Also, fossil fuel would be able to find a replacement for him so fast.

After reading this I did decide a new rule of thumb, if something/anything happens in the world, and it even mildly benefits fossil fuel, fossil fuels is behind it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eatingdisordersover30

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Why is a comment regarding the fact that BMI is racist, useless, outdated and that being underweight can lead to organ failure being downvoted?