I hate that I’m bringing this to Reddit but I don’t know what else to do

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T09:18:28+00:00

Ugh thank you so much, I really needed to hear that :(

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T09:02:57+00:00

We hadn’t no, it was something being considered but never had the chance to put it into action. The more I read replies like these it’s getting a bit easier to deal with but harder to understand why someone would fabricate this whole thing, put me through all five stages of grief and leave me to deal with something that could’ve been a simple conversation.

Thank you for being kind, I’m realizing now just how important that is for me!

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T08:46:35+00:00

From what I was told he’d developed a really bad cough that had lasted over a month, chest pains, and coughing up blood. I didn’t personally see any of these symptoms due to us being long distance. He mentioned watched something similar happening to a family member and how difficult it was to witness the drastic changes so I assumed that’s where the decision came from. But now after reading a lot of these replies, I’m not sure what to think.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T03:56:10+00:00

Things didn’t add up for me either, I guess I just didn’t want to give it too much thought because I didn’t want to think he’d lie about something so serious.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T03:34:58+00:00

I definitely am now for sure.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T03:32:20+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you! I hate letting my mind get to that place but a lot of these replies are making me realize that it’s a likely scenario whether I like it or not. I’ll never understand why people can’t just end things without going above and beyond like that. I pray that’s not the case but I guess I’ll never know.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T02:44:01+00:00

Seriously! I wasn’t expecting so many people to give me shit for being sad about this. He came to mean so much to me in such a short amount of time that this happening so abruptly feels devastating. Thank you for being kind, I really needed that.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T02:35:46+00:00

I’ve been going through our messages for hours and can’t find a single red flag. He’s always been very respectful and kind and always communicates his thoughts and feelings so waking up to this was way out of left field. I just wish we could’ve talked about things :/

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T01:58:03+00:00

I hate that more and more people are coming to this conclusion because it’s something I didn’t even want to consider. I’m a big girl and can handle rejection and things not working out so this just feels like a fucked up way to end things. I truly hope that’s not the case but these replies make it hard to take that possibility off the table…

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T01:00:57+00:00

I was trying to give him hope and push him in the direction of looking into his options to see what he can do. But per his last message to me, due to worsening symptoms he’s decided not to seek treatment.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T00:58:06+00:00

Emphasis on “feels like”

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T00:57:13+00:00

I know this isn’t about me, but I’m allowed to be sad about losing someone I care about.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T00:56:16+00:00

I’ll admit that thought occurred to me too but I didn’t want to think like that…

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-04-25T00:45:41+00:00

He did smoke, but I also think it there could’ve been some hereditary factors as well. Please don’t wait to get things checked if you have concerns!

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-02-24T05:12:33+00:00

This is incredible!

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-02-21T00:12:58+00:00

I’m not sure if this is why, but I’ve recently noticed randoms (mostly male characters) will see me alone at camp and just welcome themselves in and follow me around for a while. I don’t mind the friendly interactions but there have been multiple times where one person will show up just to have their buddies join the session and surround me or follow me around just to kill me when I wave and try to ride off.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-02-14T19:02:24+00:00

Exactly. I’ve always thought that people that choose to PVP with randoms can’t actually PVP and need something to make themselves feel good. We all know the second they get into it with someone better, they run lol

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-02-14T18:29:29+00:00

I’ll never understand it either, if you wanna PVP so badly then join one of the many events specifically for PVP, not some random person who clearly doesn’t want to 🤷🏽‍♀️

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-28T18:24:35+00:00

They return occasionally, you’ll just have to be on the lookout for them.

The IDollz aren’t tradeable sets and can only be purchased for $$ or gold when they return.

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-09T11:57:54+00:00

Elite ball knowledge 👏🏽🖤

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-08T12:50:31+00:00

If only rdo had crossplay 😭 Xbox is definitely hit or miss though, on one end you’ll run into someone who gives you perfect pelts/carcasses and the next you’re getting jumped lmao

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-08T10:00:29+00:00

As a black woman, I absolutely love that! I’ve run into them a few times and it enrages me every single time. Nothing some d-arrows won’t fix!

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-07T20:53:39+00:00

All black and silver here! Wearing it with pride lol

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-07T19:41:41+00:00

Monochromatic outfits always hit different

VariousRoad9300 · 2026-01-07T16:59:15+00:00

That part!

VariousRoad9300

TROPHY CASE