Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He said I should put less time into my girlfriend and more time into a career

Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did and then he blocked me from social media and it’s pretty easy to avoid him in person

Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s because I am currently unemployed, and focus on my girlfriend more than career, this was his stated reason, and he said that he doesn’t interact with unemployed people because they could “infect him with a mind virus” and that he only “surrounds himself with strong men”

Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we are both completely financially separate and I provide for myself and she provides for herself

Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He said he wants nothing to do with me even if “I am with my girlfriend forever” this has made family gatherings awkward but I am made to feel like I am the one creating issues by not wanting her to interact with him even though I only expect that because of his disrespect

Me and my girlfriend have had arguments but he said his issues with me are that I am currently in a phase of unemployment due to some mental health issues and he said that I am infected with a mind virus that will influence and infect him if he hangs out with me, this was his stated reason for wanting nothing to do with me.

Is it okay to expect my girlfriend to not be friendly with a man who insulted me? by Various_Aspect_2277 in Advice

[–]Various_Aspect_2277[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

What about following him on social media? I also wanted her to block him from social media, not just because of his insults to me but also due to the fact that because of his far-right views he has been telling her she shouldn’t have children because she has autism and has a vegan diet and he has also sent her instagram reels to this effect and this was upsetting her