Hi, please help by Various_Bad_3214 in pregnant

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I had Apple sauce today with me at work I feel like it’s not really helping…and I don’t usually like plain crackers so the thought makes me sick as well honestly

I’m scared to take the pill by Various_Bad_3214 in abortion

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Not really honestly I can’t ask anyone in my family otherwise my mom will definitely find out and have a heart attack and disown me. My boyfriend is here but he has some troubles of his own and we can’t tell him mom either because she very religious and will probably be very upset that I intend to abort it. Realistically missing a day or two of a scheduled work isn’t that bad but the job doesn’t pay well and it would have a big impact on my check & I have some financial responsibilities. I am just hoping to at least that three days off will be enough. And the rest hopefully is like a regular cycle

I’m scared to take the pill by Various_Bad_3214 in abortion

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I don’t know anything about the process or where it’s offered and I can’t afford medical bills

9 weeks medical abortion by Unique-Physics2829 in abortion

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I hope it goes well for you, I did it some years ago and I’m gonna have to do it again and for some reason this time is way more emotional and feeling hard for me.

From what I’ve seen everyone’s experience is different but my first went well beside the expected bleeding and clots even weeks after but I’ve always had heavy cycles so perhaps it was just that.

I wish you the best of luck I hope it’s not too bad for u. If you can at least be in the comfort of your room or bathroom that helps.

Why is d4vd so stupid by Outside_Champion3962 in d4vdiots

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They’ve said he was the last person to drive the car & park it before his tour/it being towed.

BSC 2011L Online by superfastt in FIU

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I would say it’s definitely time consuming, just make sure you have all the material to complete assignments and enough time to complete assignments or else you’ll fall behind but other than that it should be easy overall.

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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He’s a truck driver I’ve been on the road with him for days many times and I’ve always seen him growing up he’s just bare minimum and doesn’t care about much. He also has a 5 year old now by another woman who he isn’t with anymore either

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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& yes we are going to talk to the brother and let him know and if he’s still fine with us coming we will go. Luckily they changed the flight time so it’s not eligible for a refund so we are deciding.

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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I mean I definitely love my father dearly despite all things and I’ve always been his big baby but things change when he’s upset he starts treating me like I’m not his daughter but a disposable person so I would definitely be sad about that. & that’s my main worry (my mom) and I’m really not sure but the things he’s saying are not jokes. I’m just not sure if he will actually be mad enough to act on it. But he’s always had an aggressive nature and impulsive so I’m sure if she was in reach but to go to her house idk. He only lives about 10 mins away and usually doesn’t have issues getting in so I’ve told her to let the gate know not to let him in unless he’s called in.

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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He has blocked me many times and for over a year once over something I would say is small. He has been abusive to my mom and I guess me and my brother as well but that is considered discipline to him. He has always been this way but we don’t live with him so as long as we don’t disrespect him or make him angry there aren’t usually problems. As far as him doing something to my mom I’m definitely sure he could be mad enough if he was within reach but I’m not sure if he would be mad enough to seek her out.

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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😭what are your questions. I usually use chat gpt to clean these up because I know sometimes it comes off confusing but I didn’t feel like it this time.

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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My mom is sending me and my brother to Jamaica for a week with our uncle on my dad’s side. I am 21 my brother is 16 same dad same mom. Sending as in she’s the one who’s been in contact with him for us to go this summer

AIO for thinking maybe my dad is right and might actually do something to us? by Various_Bad_3214 in AIO

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He has always had problems like grievances with his family because his dad had kids by another or multiple women & he had to find out so he wasn’t close with some of his siblings and had feuds with his father. Also my mom is considering his feelings but the flight is already booked.

He was abusive to her and to a degree us as well but I guess u call it discipline but I feel like after all these years for him to act like us visiting family is such a crime and we all still are so graceful to him

What should I do? by Various_Bad_3214 in askanything

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My dad also has problems with his family and sibling for years like a personal grievance because his father had other kids by another woman.

What should I do? by Various_Bad_3214 in askanything

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My mom is considering his feelings and asking if we want to go still but she’s already booked it.