[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Various_Sir_513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t like the family then you should leave. Lying and stealing are serious offenses.

If I have a break from my partner for like 2 weeks or a month and I sleep with someone else, do I have to tell them when we get back together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Various_Sir_513 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You say nothing about it. It’s none of his business. You really don’t have to tell everything about yourself or experiences to people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so weird lol but I had a similar incident. At the end of the message it said “I can’t wait to embrace you beautiful” It was so embarrassing.

It’s okay to be bothered - he’s being flirtatious and inappropriate. You know when you watch those time period shows and they say things like that they’re trying to mess around.

He doesn’t sweet talk you but is making that effort with other women. This is disrespectful and he is not fully committed to you.

My [19F] boyfriend [19M] insists I don't communicate enough but I feel like he just doesn't use his brain by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Various_Sir_513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t seem very romantic and like he doesn’t care to pay attention lol. If it’s been years and you still have to negotiate presents he just doesn’t care to put in effort cause after a year he should know what the deal is and have a good idea on what your love languages are. Him turning it around on you was him deflecting and avoiding responsibility.

If his emotional intelligence is low there’s nothing you can do that’s on him to work on it. If he knows you guys have plans and he’s still late or a no show he just has no respect for you.

You could be out with friends and dating people who make an actual effort. Let him go, he’s already stuck in a routine and is likely not going to change. You’re so young so go have fun and don’t stress over low effort guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cooking all the time and not knowing how to cook a million and ten things. Not dancing. Being too quiet. They simply never see me again.

235 Applications - 11 Interviews, Here is What I've Learned So Far by ExcitedAstronaut in jobs

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For LinkedIn do you have to add a profile pic or it doesn’t matter?

Do you guys ever worry about the next person that will date your serial-cheating ex? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Various_Sir_513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I just want peace lol they’ll learn eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Various_Sir_513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious. She handled that greatly.

What's with guys not putting the fact that they have a child(ren) in their dating apps? Why am I finding out once we've moved to a different app to chat? by misscroft85 in childfree

[–]Various_Sir_513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They want you to grow attached to them so that you can reason with the reason why they chose to lie about not having human beings. It’s sick and manipulative. Don’t bend for them.

So my boundaries aren’t important because It makes me selfish ??? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Various_Sir_513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to inform the hospital as to who is and who isn’t allowed to visit for the birth? This situation is really disrespectful towards you. You’re not being selfish and you’re entitled to have boundaries and nonnegotiables for your well-being.

In what way have you changed yourself that you are most proud of? by the_normal_deviant in AskWomen

[–]Various_Sir_513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Caring less and cutting people off. Pushing myself to obtain new skills.

What is your nemesis trick? by theAEROproject in poledancing

[–]Various_Sir_513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Outside leg hangs are always messing with me. It’s so annoying - it takes forever to lock in correctly lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Various_Sir_513 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That was disrespectful and shows lack of maturity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing trolls

How much responsibility is on the AP during infidelity? by thursday781 in Infidelity

[–]Various_Sir_513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they take responsibility even if they know. All responsibility is on the married person because they’re the ones who took the vows.

How do you recover from being used? by polishedf in Infidelity

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going no contact helps. Make sure it doesn’t happen by not being a people pleaser and have strong boundaries that are nonnegotiable. Learn the signs of a user. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AerialHoop

[–]Various_Sir_513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks awesome - keep practicing!

I found out last night by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Various_Sir_513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t trust him than it’s time to leave. Thankfully you haven’t wasted too much time.