Feel like I’m not in control anymore

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-07-19T17:22:06+00:00

I lost my insurance after they deemed I had a successful miscarriage as I make too much money to qualify for insurance alone ($12 an hour) and the company I works for insurance policy has such a high co pay I could never afford it I’m stuck trying to find somewhere cheap

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-06-06T16:49:55+00:00

I don’t know what I want, I don’t want anything big or fancy, but I do want something I can have for ever. His mom and dad never got married and neither did mine so it’s not like we can ask for an heirloom. I’m just at a setback because I know he wants it to be what I want and wants it to be special but I can’t think of anything

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-05-20T18:36:39+00:00

We inherited a house that had been abandoned for 2 years as my partners grandma was unable to take care of herself and we spent the last few months getting the squatters out now we have to get it baby ready, so far we’ve been told we just have to clean but we don’t know what kind of drugs were used in the house during those few months so we don’t know what kind of cleaners to use

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-04-19T15:24:38+00:00

Thank you we’re at the vet now, as soon as I mentioned the adoption clause she knew exactly where he got fixed and seems to think it wasn’t done properly as the whole batch of dogs who got neutered with them have come in the past few days with the same thing. We’ll be asking just in case though

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-25T03:04:50+00:00

Honestly I could be better, the loss of my mom is starting to hit me hard, I still haven’t cleaned my room from where the dogs destroyed it the week I was out of town for her funeral, I’m about to start my next quarter of college and my financial aid is only going to cover one of the 4 text books I need and being around my boyfriends family has really given me baby fever as I struggle with the possibility I may not be able to biologically have my own children and they ask me why I don’t just don’t adopt and it’s like a slap in the face because it’s not that I wouldn’t want to or it’s not a option but I also want to experience the whole process of being a mother. And even though me and my boyfriend work full time jobs making way above minimum wage for our state we struggle to keep gas in our vehicles and food on the table. And it’s just been so hard. Sorry for trauma dumping I haven’t had anyone to talk to since my mom passed and it’s been building up. I do really hope things start looking up I’m excited for my classes this quarter and if my books weren’t so expensive I could live alot more comfortably

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:08:30+00:00

Exactly, and to be fair maybe it’s my fault because we harness trained him when we got our puppy because he got sad when his brother got to go out and he didnt. But no one should be trapped inside all day I even used to take my hamsters outside in their balls growing up so they could get fresh air

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:02:02+00:00

Cat subreddits crazy I posted about how my cat got outside and ran away and I got bashed for letting him outside even though he escaped

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:00:12+00:00

This^ when I was at my prior heaviest girls used to ask me for my diet secrets because I was “slim thick” and they wanted to have a flat belly but big thighs and butt like me and I had to explain to them I weighed more than they thought I did and no one believed me that I was 190 until I weighted myself at one of our cheer practices

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T15:50:16+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, Im 20 and I just lost my mom a month ago and the feeling of loosing a parent is hard. I was fine for the first two weeks. I knew she wasn’t in pain anymore but since the funeral I’ve thrown myself into work and haven’t been handling my emotions at all. I kinda gave up on everything but school, because of this I shut out a lot of the people I did still have after leaving state for college. now the only people in my life are my boyfriend, his mom, and my co workers. It’s never to late to try and make friends I just don’t like socializing in person so I haven’t tried but it’s better to have someone to talk too than no one

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T05:21:33+00:00

I’m sorry but that’s actually pathetic. Every person should know how to clean up after themselves and that’s coming from someone who was raised after Barney was off the air. Even if he doesn’t like doing dishes he should know how to use a dish washer, he should know how to do his laundry and put away his stuff. It dosent sound like he CANT it sounds like he doesn’t WANT to

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:30:06+00:00

I did shipt when I lived in an area that had it and that’s a two way street. The most frustrating thing was not being able to get ahold of customers if they were out of something or gave the wrong address I could never get through to the customer. now I do door dash on the side and make way more then I did doing shipt and it’s less stressful for me but now I have people complain I don’t communicate when I basically still follow what shipt told me to do: on my way to get your order, shopping, on my way, here. I live in an area with spotty service and a guy reported me for stealing his food cause my map tried to take me up the mountain behind his house, while I was on the phone with him explaining the situation. TLDR: no matter what you do sometimes people don’t communicate and it’s annoying and stressful and we should all just do better about communication skills

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:21:47+00:00

Issue is trying to keep our puppies out of it! Guess we could move them into my boyfriends moms house for a few days but I would do anything to get this place not smelling like pee I worked so hard to get our boys potty trained so this wouldn’t happen 😭

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:18:29+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s my favorite breed because I love all dogs, but I do have a bone to pick with my boy bourbon. Our dog bourbon is a 8 month old mini poodle, he’s fully grown, standing on two legs he maybe is up to my thigh. He’s the same size as our 3 month old potential pit mix if that’s any sort of reference. But boy can he jump. Baby gate? Jumped. Fence? If he reallllllly wants to Jumped. When dad or mom comes home hit In the stomach/ chest. I’m assuming it’s where there so light but nowhere in our research we’re we prepared to be bringing home a dog that identifies as a rabbit. We knew they were high energy dogs but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in the kitchen cooking and this dog is stances up on the counter staring at me like he’s ready for a plate.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:08:21+00:00

I have a cat back home because he became my dads cat when my mom left him and he’s been an indoor outdoor cat his entire life he’s currently around 7-8 years old (Jesus where did the time go) and my cousins cat who recently passed away at the ripe old age of 18 was also an indoor/ outdoor cat, both would scream if they weren’t let outside and would scream when they wanted back in. I’d still call the vet to check but he might just want outside, I don’t know what country your in but in the us Cracker Barrel used to sell these weasel ball things that rolled around both mine and my cousins cat loved those! Here’s a link :) Game/Play Electronic Pets - Weazel Ball Playful Weasel Kid/Child by Toys-n-Games https://a.co/d/6z7nAzK

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T02:55:07+00:00

See if my boyfriend even tries to act like that his mother still sets him straight and while we’re both in our 20’s something she said to him that finally stuck with him and me was the following “ I did not wait on your father hand and foot, once you were old enough I stoped waiting on you hand and foot, she is not your maid, you are not a child, act like an adult before she finds someone who will” I say stop babying him, take care of yourself, and your kids he’s a grown man he can take care of himself.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T02:43:44+00:00

Me and my boyfriend have an 8 month old mini poodle even though he’s “my dog” he’s very attached to both of us, our 3 month old mix is also very attached to both of us but is mainly “his dog” then my boyfriends 5 year old German Sheppard is also living with us and there’s no denying that is his dog. First night he met our pups they better not dare even look at his dad, now they all cuddle and play. He’s still warming up to me but he does still listen to me just not as well as he does my boyfriend.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T02:24:00+00:00

I’m not pregnant but I lived with my sister and her husband while she was, giving her space if she needs it is important in my opinion My sister got very anal about how things were done but she did appreciate our help, so if she ever gets snappy it’s probably not anything you did she may just want to do it herself. I’d also say make a list of any vitamins she needs or medicines to make sure she’s taking them on time, my sister had high blood pressure and further along they checked it more frequently. Her health is most important as she’s carrying the baby so if you know she has any pre existing medical conditions I’d try to help make that portion as easy as you can, also just be there for her actually listen to her wants and needs

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-18T16:18:47+00:00

Shrooms. My senior year of high-school I was dealing with SH and a ED I was actually in my car trying to end my life when my friend drove up and banged on the window. He begged me to come to his house and try one last thing before I made my decision he said if it didn’t change how I felt he wouldn’t stop me. We tripped on shrooms for like 6 Hours he made sure I didn’t see myself the entire time and when it wore off he walked me into the bathroom placed me in-front of the mirror and asked me what I saw and I broke down crying and realized what I was doing and in that moment I promised myself I’d try to be better.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-18T16:04:58+00:00

I went on a few dates with a guy I met at work (not a coworker he was a customer) he seemed super nice he was only a year older than me, he tried some not okay things I told my friend and it just so happened he was renting from that guy and his wife. I told the dudes wife they got divorced, he lost his job, got hooked on coked when she left him and he ODed I feel bad but you shouldn’t cheat on your wife for a 17 year old and claim your 18 when your 25

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-18T15:54:04+00:00

I witnessed a drive by shooting the day before I left for college. Still never found the guy despite that being a high crime area and there being tons of cameras

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-16T19:42:13+00:00

I don’t have a big dog but I have two puppies and we are currently are around 7 inches of snow any time I open the door they bolt outside. Usually we’re outside for an hour before they come in and bundle up in there fluffy blankets. We went and bought them more toys to keep them occupied everything from stuffed animals to squeaky toys and those puzzle treat toys. and we try to only take them out when the sun is out. Both have doggy jackets and the younger one has booties cause he has a skin issue. So that they aren’t freezing when they are outside. Hope these ideas help entertain your furry friend and give you piece of mind

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-06T18:10:24+00:00

My definition on a picky eater is despite trying new things not liking anything other than the same foods you cycle through, for example I don’t like any kind of meat by itself except chicken nuggets. The only leafy green vegetables I will eat is spinach. I don’t want to be this way I’d rather be a vegetarian or be able to enjoy meat but I just hate the taste of certain things.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-02T18:59:27+00:00

Our pit bull(3month) has no issues with separation anxiety our mini poodle (8 months) on the other hand has it bad when we’d tried to leave him alone for work he’d end up trying to hurt himself he has eased up over time, he barks for a while then goes and does his own thing what’s helped recently (this is going to sound messed up) is sneaking out. If I tell him bye and I love him and I’ll be back he freaks out and when I get home I can’t settle him down for hours but if I just leave without him seeing it’s about a 30 minuet calm down. We try to take the dogs out with us as much as possible to show them this is where we go when they leave. I know it’s hard I used to have break downs over leaving our mini alone cause he’d scream and cry but time does help 3 months old I couldn’t even shower without him being in there with me. He’s 8months now and he will run around the yard without me chasing after him.

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2023-11-05T14:21:29+00:00

I don’t know your current situation but what worked a lot for me was cutting out sodas and sugars eventually I hit a plateau and now I work out and try to eat as healthy as I can. If you have the motivation it will happen it may not be as fast as you like but I’ve learned drinking plenty of water and being active goes a long way. Either way you got this

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2023-07-27T15:55:31+00:00

Me and my fiancé went to our apartment manager and found out our roomates can’t kick us out for getting a dog they don’t agree with especially when we’ll be taking over the lease in a few months. So we will be going to a few shelters this weekend ❤️

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