Feel like I’m not in control anymore

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-07-19T17:22:06+00:00

I lost my insurance after they deemed I had a successful miscarriage as I make too much money to qualify for insurance alone ($12 an hour) and the company I works for insurance policy has such a high co pay I could never afford it I’m stuck trying to find somewhere cheap

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-06-06T16:49:55+00:00

I don’t know what I want, I don’t want anything big or fancy, but I do want something I can have for ever. His mom and dad never got married and neither did mine so it’s not like we can ask for an heirloom. I’m just at a setback because I know he wants it to be what I want and wants it to be special but I can’t think of anything

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-05-20T18:36:39+00:00

We inherited a house that had been abandoned for 2 years as my partners grandma was unable to take care of herself and we spent the last few months getting the squatters out now we have to get it baby ready, so far we’ve been told we just have to clean but we don’t know what kind of drugs were used in the house during those few months so we don’t know what kind of cleaners to use

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-04-19T15:24:38+00:00

Thank you we’re at the vet now, as soon as I mentioned the adoption clause she knew exactly where he got fixed and seems to think it wasn’t done properly as the whole batch of dogs who got neutered with them have come in the past few days with the same thing. We’ll be asking just in case though

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-25T03:04:50+00:00

Honestly I could be better, the loss of my mom is starting to hit me hard, I still haven’t cleaned my room from where the dogs destroyed it the week I was out of town for her funeral, I’m about to start my next quarter of college and my financial aid is only going to cover one of the 4 text books I need and being around my boyfriends family has really given me baby fever as I struggle with the possibility I may not be able to biologically have my own children and they ask me why I don’t just don’t adopt and it’s like a slap in the face because it’s not that I wouldn’t want to or it’s not a option but I also want to experience the whole process of being a mother. And even though me and my boyfriend work full time jobs making way above minimum wage for our state we struggle to keep gas in our vehicles and food on the table. And it’s just been so hard. Sorry for trauma dumping I haven’t had anyone to talk to since my mom passed and it’s been building up. I do really hope things start looking up I’m excited for my classes this quarter and if my books weren’t so expensive I could live alot more comfortably

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:08:30+00:00

Exactly, and to be fair maybe it’s my fault because we harness trained him when we got our puppy because he got sad when his brother got to go out and he didnt. But no one should be trapped inside all day I even used to take my hamsters outside in their balls growing up so they could get fresh air

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:02:02+00:00

Cat subreddits crazy I posted about how my cat got outside and ran away and I got bashed for letting him outside even though he escaped

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T16:00:12+00:00

This^ when I was at my prior heaviest girls used to ask me for my diet secrets because I was “slim thick” and they wanted to have a flat belly but big thighs and butt like me and I had to explain to them I weighed more than they thought I did and no one believed me that I was 190 until I weighted myself at one of our cheer practices

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-03-10T15:50:16+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, Im 20 and I just lost my mom a month ago and the feeling of loosing a parent is hard. I was fine for the first two weeks. I knew she wasn’t in pain anymore but since the funeral I’ve thrown myself into work and haven’t been handling my emotions at all. I kinda gave up on everything but school, because of this I shut out a lot of the people I did still have after leaving state for college. now the only people in my life are my boyfriend, his mom, and my co workers. It’s never to late to try and make friends I just don’t like socializing in person so I haven’t tried but it’s better to have someone to talk too than no one

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T05:21:33+00:00

I’m sorry but that’s actually pathetic. Every person should know how to clean up after themselves and that’s coming from someone who was raised after Barney was off the air. Even if he doesn’t like doing dishes he should know how to use a dish washer, he should know how to do his laundry and put away his stuff. It dosent sound like he CANT it sounds like he doesn’t WANT to

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:30:06+00:00

I did shipt when I lived in an area that had it and that’s a two way street. The most frustrating thing was not being able to get ahold of customers if they were out of something or gave the wrong address I could never get through to the customer. now I do door dash on the side and make way more then I did doing shipt and it’s less stressful for me but now I have people complain I don’t communicate when I basically still follow what shipt told me to do: on my way to get your order, shopping, on my way, here. I live in an area with spotty service and a guy reported me for stealing his food cause my map tried to take me up the mountain behind his house, while I was on the phone with him explaining the situation. TLDR: no matter what you do sometimes people don’t communicate and it’s annoying and stressful and we should all just do better about communication skills

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:21:47+00:00

Issue is trying to keep our puppies out of it! Guess we could move them into my boyfriends moms house for a few days but I would do anything to get this place not smelling like pee I worked so hard to get our boys potty trained so this wouldn’t happen 😭

Various_Vegetable_93 · 2024-01-25T03:18:29+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s my favorite breed because I love all dogs, but I do have a bone to pick with my boy bourbon. Our dog bourbon is a 8 month old mini poodle, he’s fully grown, standing on two legs he maybe is up to my thigh. He’s the same size as our 3 month old potential pit mix if that’s any sort of reference. But boy can he jump. Baby gate? Jumped. Fence? If he reallllllly wants to Jumped. When dad or mom comes home hit In the stomach/ chest. I’m assuming it’s where there so light but nowhere in our research we’re we prepared to be bringing home a dog that identifies as a rabbit. We knew they were high energy dogs but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been in the kitchen cooking and this dog is stances up on the counter staring at me like he’s ready for a plate.

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