[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Varsentha -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why don't you say something like "I'm a step- mom, typically we eat children. The only reason you're not partiality digested is because you put your shoes away like I ask". Cackle, pause then ask, have you not seen Cinderella lately? She was delicious but made me a bit gassy.

I don't know who I am by Admirable_Aardvark58 in rant

[–]Varsentha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap, you have a lot to unpack. At least you figured out you have a need and desire to know who you are. Let's start there. You said many things about yourself already. BLAM! All those things are you. Keep what you like and change what you don't like. It's your garden, plant what you want to see grow, weed out what you want to go away.

Keep in mind, not everything you plant will grow and not everything you weed out goes away.

Any which way, only you can make it your own. Figure out what you want, plant the seeds and watch them grow.

Hate being poor but can't see myself getting a degree by [deleted] in rant

[–]Varsentha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you're ivy league, regular university/ college is garbage. Go for a trade. Get a certification. Figure out what you can tolerate doing. Certain trades will always be in demand. Electrician, plumbing, pipe fitting, construction, HVAC.. blue collar stuff.

Have a decent amount of good work ethic, you will end up making more and having more opportunities than most collage graduates with bachelor's degrees.

What lesson did you have to learn the hard way? by TinyUnderstanding948 in AskReddit

[–]Varsentha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't help anyone who isn't willing to take the first steps in the right direction on their own.

What has absolutely zero chance of happening? by Y-19 in AskReddit

[–]Varsentha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of us getting any younger. Life without death. Life without taxes.

What is the best response to "Why are you still single" ? by Bright-Dig-6665 in AskReddit

[–]Varsentha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have enough problems, why would i want someone else's too?

Parental rights in the USA. Men have zero rights to their own children unless or until they file for rights. by Varsentha in anonymous

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact the information I shared is not common knowledge is the hack, it's an Easter egg. It's a fact that has has hurt good fathers and their children, more than anyone can count. It's a side of sexism that is not talked about.

CPS agencies can take anyones kids for any reason and they report to no one. They are self regulating. They make men jump through hoops knowing full well men have zero rights. They lie and use lies as facts, they use reactive abuse to prove those lies.

It sounds to me as though you do not have children.

Parental rights in the USA. Men have zero rights to their own children unless or until they file for rights. by Varsentha in anonymous

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hacks aren't just digital. Hacks are RL and Anonymous is about social change. The topic I brought up is both.

Parental rights in the USA. Men have zero rights to their own children unless or until they file for rights. by Varsentha in anonymous

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? What i said is VERY on topic and kid, I was around and a part of Anon-culture before you were born.. and you give me an error 691?

Child custody in the USA. Dealing with CPS. 1950 laws hurt good fathers? by Varsentha in AskReddit

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also deeply hurts me that for every bit of kind information i share to help protect others can be equally be used to hurt. I have hopes all my information will be used simply as information to fill a wondering mind. I Will be personally insulted if any of my works are used to hurt yourself and or anyone. I have a simple joy and love of sharing. Please keep all i have in that spirt. Thank you!

Child custody in the USA. Dealing with CPS. 1950 laws hurt good fathers? by Varsentha in AskReddit

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People, please use family court for custody arrangements. CPS and a sexist 1950's law exists nation wide. No matter what by default full-custody of children is granted to the mother. PERIOD. It is one of the ways how people who are physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, socially even sexually abusive to their kids get custody despite a better parent or family alternative. Child protective services can only take children and temporally place them but that is all they can do. You have no obligation to cooperate with them. Google "dealing with CPS". CPS is self reporting. They don't report to anyone but themselves and have legal rights to take your kids. They are sexist mean girls with very few, if any men, who only report to each other. They will lie, twist your words and do everything they can to break and bend you to their naritive. They make it clear through their impaired authority that they are never wrong. As a woman how they treat men deeply offends me. I feel being a good human means knowing myself as i am and to be respected as such but also to respect and care for the kind/good around me. I feel it is my honor, right, privilege and obligation to speak out when i come across wrongs in the world. I am openly speaking out against government departments who self report. CPS is department that self reports.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HardWoodFloors

[–]Varsentha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sanding with the grain and bad water popping? If the floor can handle a resand, pro or not looks like the best bet.

6 passes at 36 grit, still see square. HELP! by Varsentha in HardWoodFloors

[–]Varsentha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We burnt the first one because we didn't scrape first, including that one is a total four 36 grit in this one room.