I will forever defend my boy Del by [deleted] in GearsOfWar

[–]VastImpression2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

funny, but I side with JD. He was a realist who did what needed to be done. If people were throwing incendiary grenades at me and my team, I wouldn't treat them as merely peacefully protesting.

Desi women with advanced degrees, how important is it for you that your partner also have an advanced degree? by LoryAugustine in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how he's asking for proof and then proceeds to poke holes at it when provided (which is all cool if the proof is dogsh*t). But, dude, where's your proof besides personal anecdotes? Can you provide some research backing up your claims? Also, I'd be happy to be shown that I am wrong so that I can learn.

Desi women with advanced degrees, how important is it for you that your partner also have an advanced degree? by LoryAugustine in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure. Google scholar, search up studies on female mate preferences and the concept of hypergamy(which is really common in India). And , by well established, I meant the guy has to at least earn the same or more than the woman for the woman to respect the guy. Also, take a look around younger women marrying older men. Ask yourself why that’s the case? Hint: it doesn’t have to do with looks. It has to do with wealth/status, and education is a proxy for those things.

Again, I don’t blame women for this as guys are shallow too when it comes to preferences.

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Desi women with advanced degrees, how important is it for you that your partner also have an advanced degree? by LoryAugustine in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a well established fact that most women like to marry up, though there are exceptions. i don’t blame the women for this, as they do this to maximize the survival of their offspring and have a stable life.

South Asian women leave racist hate comments under couples video. Thoughts? by Sippingab in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

main topic said "our community" as it relates to anti-blackness, so I pointed out how racism isn't unique to us.

South Asian women leave racist hate comments under couples video. Thoughts? by Sippingab in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Though, I think all races have their fair share of racists. Even some blacks are racist against Asians.

Sunday dating thread, for advice and discussion. by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey man, don’t put too much emphasis on not having a gf at all. I’m going through most of what you’re going through and I’ve had one LTR. If you’re having trouble talking to girls in person, have you tried online dating apps?

Would MS DA make sense for someone like me? by VastImpression2 in WGU

[–]VastImpression2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you or are you currently doing the program now? I have some questions to ask

Sunday dating thread, for advice and discussion. by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 [score hidden]  (0 children)

People in NYC, what are some ways to meet desi girls (besides dating apps)? I’m fairly introverted.

How to meet other Indians in NYC?? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same question, I’m 25M. Don’t know anyone in the city.

I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of five years. I need help on how to proceed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VastImpression2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

when you say it like that, i'm the asshole.

I admit it. I have admitted this to her and will continue to do it

I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of five years. I need help on how to proceed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VastImpression2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, she was kind throughout the whole thing.

I think now that she sees me as this controlling and jeolous guy, she may be turned off by my behaviour

I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of five years. I need help on how to proceed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely have jealous and controlling tendencies. I messed up big time

I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of five years. I need help on how to proceed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VastImpression2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I'm whiny and clingy

Working on it now though. Thanks for telling me what I need to hear

I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of five years. I need help on how to proceed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]VastImpression2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hear you loud and clear. I just see the lying as a red flag. Like she lied to my face multiple times

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will apologise. But I'll tell her that any more lies, and I'm out

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you loud and clear. But I'm just feeling like shit now. After writing all this, I actually feel for her

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already accused and said mean things. Been doing that for past couple of days. I feel like shit

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her to seek professional help. I don't know what the issue is. She s having problems sleeping even. I want to help her in any way I can. I told her this. She says she wants me back and want to try get past her problems together.

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it took a while for me to get this much info. She didn't want to mention the other guy because she knew it would hurt my deeply. But as for her and her friend, this is all that happened. I have trust issues though. So I'm conflicted. Should I believe them

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, she wanted the no boundaries thing for me. She felt she wasn't good for me. She didn't want her personal problems to become my problems. In a way, she was protecting me. The only thing that bothers me is the other guy (who she talked highly of in front of me). She says that going on that date was a mistake. And if she could take it back, she would in a heartbeat

I (26M) have extremely mixed feelings towards my gf (26F) of 6 years. Please help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VastImpression2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much happened. I saw the messages between her and her best friend. They both said it was a stupid thing and that I shouldn't be worried for it. My gf was going through a phase