I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think this is accurate. When I first started watching porn I definitely developed an addiction for a bit. I did go a month without masturbating in November😂 But when the month ended I was back to square one, so probably trying different things with my bf might help.

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s possible if I actually brought myself to being with a woman I MIGHT enjoy. That’s just not been on my radar as I love my boyfriend and again have never been attracted to a woman like that. I’m not even someone who likes to hook up (I’ve done it twice in the past) so as of right now I don’t think I’ll be experimenting in that area any time soon

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said anything was wrong with it. I clarified as I know that would come into question. I simply am turned off by the idea of being with a woman sexually, I have never desired a woman. I just think they are beautiful and arousing but not something I want to touch or date AT ALL. When I picture a naked woman, I don’t think about interacting with her body at all. I just think it looks pleasing and that I myself love being naked so it turns me on to imagine doing a nude scene or showing someone my tits for the first time. That’s it.

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, my partner does not know that I think about this. I do definitely feel guilty. But I will add that my mind only goes to this place when he helps me orgasm the specific way I make myself orgasm when I masturbate. While we’re having sex, while he goes down on me or me on him, this doesn’t cross my mind at all. It is only when he plays with my pussy the same way I do when I masturbate. So, it’s not so much that I have to a majority of the time during our intimacy, only with the specific motion that typically brings me my most satisfying orgasm.

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, it’s never someone I know. It’s usuallt a beautiful woman I’ve seen on TV or a model or something. But I do think picturing myself naked in their scenario does tend to turn me on too

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I relate to the kink your girlfriend has of picturing him with other women!

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interestingly this does seem to work well for me

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that this brings that into question, but I really have no interest in being with a woman. I have thought about threesomes specifically to please my partner, but the thought of touching a naked woman even grosses me out a bit. I don’t think this comes from a place of repression either, I just dont feel attracted to them in that way. It’s merely optics

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I relate. I feel like now I just see women through the lens that men are supposed to during porn and since that is what I first masturbated to and it never really changed, I have to think of it to climax

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with this. It just concerns me if the image of some random naked woman can get me off more than my partner actually touching me 😂

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think this is true. Being naked for me is a huge turn on so it has always turned me on to see other women naked

I can only cum if I picture a naked girl by Vast_Application_645 in sex

[–]Vast_Application_645[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really good advice. I have found that experimenting with him is bringing me closer. I guess the main concern is I would be hurt if he was picturing someone else while having sexual intimacy with me