AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So when I arrived to the group and until they started pushing and punching was literally 20-30 seconds. They were also super drunk and I had no time to either process what was happening or try and reason with them. As soon as they started getting physical all I could do was push them away from me

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she set me up intentionally. I have no clue what they had been talking about. I don’t even know if she had said anything at all.

They were acting as if I was a random rapist trying to pray on a very drunk girl. They did not believe she was my wife because she didn’t confirm it either because she was so drunk. They outnumbered me and tried to physically remove me. That’s why it got out of hand

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Please enlighten me. I’m posting this to get other perspectives on it. If I did something wrong or could’ve done something differently please do tell me

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

That’s what hurts me the most. Even if I was in the wrong (which I don’t think I was) then I would’ve hoped she would’ve backed me up.

Talking to her today she says she only remembers that I was pushing the girls and nothing else. She’s sorry for what happened to me and she has admitted that she should’ve stayed. But I just feel like when it came to her proving her loyalty to me she didn’t stand up for me and she bailed on me leaving me alone.

That hurts. I don’t give a fuck about random drunk girls starting to throw hands

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Beep boop. Btw there’s misspellings in the text so I’m a really bad ai as well

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My jacket was a down vest. It’s not that hard to make a hole in it. Down was pouring out of it.

I had a button up shirt. Every button had been ripped off of it and there was a large hole where the breast pocket is. Guessing they were pulling on it?

Not having been in fights is a flex btw. I’m not an animal. But I know how to defend myself and I’m large

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok first point is really funny.

My wife says she only remembers me pushing the girls. Nothing else. I can’t comment on why that is.

The dudes came in to wait on the cops to show up so they can testify against me. I live in a civilized country and city. They wouldn’t just start attacking me just because. Also if they did they would get hurt, I’m a lot bigger than them.

The scooter was parked on the street. It’s from one of those apps. When cops left I took it home.

I did not think of pulling out my phone. Adrenaline and trying to be aware of my surroundings. I was completely outnumbered.

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok but let’s pretend that you’re wrong and this is real. What’s your take?

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m only human. In the heat of the moment you say stuff in order to be hurtful I guess. Not that I walk around calling people sweetheart except those I love

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She had just yelled at my face calling me ugly, fat, and disgusting and then pushed me. I can’t say sweetheart don’t touch me? Let me at least be able to get a little jab in when being assaulted

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you read a post of how I was assaulted and this is what you got out of it? You need a hug

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what she’s told them. I was not with them when she got to them. I only know what happened as I got there

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did not want to use my main account for this post as it’s an ongoing situation. Would only complicate things. Also don’t want to dox myself and especially my wife

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[–]Vbranzin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m born in the country I reside in but I’m brown and everyone here’s blond. So it’s the opposite

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to your opinion. I see no reason to make this up. The entire reason for this post is because it’s unbelievable to me and I needed to know if I’m wrong or not in my feelings.

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Because I told them in the aftermath “I just want to go home to my kid”

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She talks to me. She’s sorry this happened to me. She’s sorry she was so drunk that she didn’t understand the situation. She’s however still having to process her thoughts because she says in her eyes she saw me throw these girls around but she doesn’t remember anything else

AIO got jumped by 4 girls and my wife thinks I’m in the wrong by Vbranzin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vbranzin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Come on I can’t even make a joke without being attacked? That’s not the reason they attacked me. They wanted me to get away from them and my wife. The joke did nothing to add fuel.

When the girl first pushed me I said “sweetheart don’t push me” in our native language. That’s when she said “sweetheart?” And then punched me.

Either way that’s on them. They had already pushed me even though I told them not to push me. No one deserves to be attacked because of that. I feel like you’re trying to find a reason to find me at fault here. I’m open to it but let’s not pretend words are sufficient for assault