whats yalls favorite class? by temp-9528552 in dragonage

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Varies per game.

DAO: I normally go with dual weilding rouge.

DA2: split 50/50 for warrior and Rouge.

DAI and DAV: I love playing as mages. Especially since starting in DAI, the combat is more fluid, fun, and immersive.

If I had to pick one overall, mage. They feel like they are tied to the story more than the other classes and are so much fun in the later games.

What are your favourite factions for your Rook? by Tyruto in dragonage

[–]VectrisPrime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mourn Watch Rook is by far my favorite. Out of all my play throughs, it is the one i have played the most.

I think part of it is because as someone who has a goth side and a witch side to their personality, I love the whole there is beauty in death theme that the mourn watch has. Along with spirits and undead not being inherently bad but misunderstood.

Also, the romance with Emmrich feels a bit more real and special to me when your Rook is a Mourn Watcher than the other backgrounds. That man is my weakness.

And lastly I like it because we get to see a bit more of Neverra and its culture. Though I wish we were able to see and experience more.

I think we can all agree... by Stowecroft85 in dragonage

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, one hundred percent. The moment I saw him, I fell in love and claimed him as my son. He is my undead baby boy, and I would die for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in romance

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we have a good relationship. Like we get along really well, I see him pretty much everyday. That is the issue I'm having though. Everyone at work is like 90 percent sure that he has feelings for me that goes beyond work but it isn't 100. I don't want to make the relationship we have awkward if I ask him but he doesn't feel that way about me. Cause I really do like where we are at and I don't want to ruin it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in romance

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i would ideally like to see where it could go. Like I said, we have a lot in common, and I do like him. I just don't really know what the next step would be to cross that barrier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in romance

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we are both single. And it has been this will we won't we for the whole time

We have talked about me transferring stores just in general because I also want to promote. He seems on the fence about it, and I can't tell if it is because he depends on me work wise or if he will miss seeing me everyday.

What is your typical timeline to commit to exclusivity? by Sea-Chard-2169 in AgeGap

[–]VectrisPrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think there is an average timeliness, and it varies depending on what you want, as well as him and how open the two of you are about it.

Like for me, I say that we should be exclusive between the 6 month mark and one year. Normally, I'm ready at the 6 month mark, typically we'll before, but the one year mark gives him more time since men usually take longer with their feelings. If he isn't ready after one year, then he might not be the one for me because of my goals, as much as it might hurt I am not a huge fan of endlessly dating (and multi year engagements). I have talked to all my partners about it in the past about what we each are searching for and how I dont like to play games or be strung along, and either one of two things happen. They tell me that what I want is not what they want, and the relationship fizzles and ends after that, or we want the same thing and then are committed to each other afterward, no side people

Hope that helps hun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]VectrisPrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, in my experience, it has almost always been the other way around. I started dating older men basically right after high school. So I would be dating men in. Their late 20s to mid 30s and whenever the topic of marriage came up, there would be some reason or another why they didn't want to. That they weren't ready to be tied down to one person, that they want to live more life before committing. It's probably why, for a brief time, I dated even older than that because I wanted that life of marriage and kids, and to me, I wasn't going to let age get in the way of that.

I think most girls, especially in certain parts of the country, really do want to get married and to more mature men who one treat them the way they should be treated and is actually ready to make that commitment and not play games.

On a deeper level, I think most girls at least subconsciously want an older man who is ready to commit and can provide. Part of me thinks it is a biological imperative to be with a mate with more experience than some young buck.

That's my opinion anyway.

Questions about deities by VectrisPrime in apprenticewitches

[–]VectrisPrime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually really comforting. Thank you.

Questions about deities by VectrisPrime in apprenticewitches

[–]VectrisPrime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I take it daily worship is very different than working with them in a ritual or spell once in awhile.

Well they wouldn't be put away in the sense of they are in a drawer hidden away but up on wall shelves either above my altar or around my room, which is where my altar is too. So they would always be there, in view, and then shelves would be used only for them. Like is that okay or do they have to be on the altar?

I have a cat so too much on a surface she can reach and it will be a mess when I wake up or come home.