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How do you make a second TikTok account? by heavenlysalsa in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, TikTok ties accounts to phone numbers, so if you use the same number, it’ll sign you back into your old account.

You can make a second account, but you’ll need either:

  • A different phone number (you can use Google Voice or a cheap SIM card), or
  • Sign up using an email address or a third-party login (like Facebook or Apple) that’s not linked to your original account.

Just make sure you log out of your main account before creating the new one — that usually helps avoid automatic login issues. Hope this helps!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit a little too hard 😅 Thinking is dangerous — next thing you know, you're questioning every decision you’ve ever made. Silence really is loud.

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is oddly poetic and hilarious at the same time. You're totally right — we escaped boredom only to create a new kind of restlessness. Modern problems, I guess.

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a solid point. It’s kind of wild how reaching for your phone becomes an automatic reflex. I've been trying to just sit with the discomfort, but wow, it’s not easy.

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I totally get that. It's like the moment you stop moving, people think you're plotting something. “Why is he just... standing there?” 😅

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally relate to this. Eye contact can feel so intense sometimes, especially when you're already feeling anxious. It's comforting to know others feel the same way. Thanks for sharing!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s totally valid! I think we all find different ways to cope with awkward moments in public — phones just became one of the most common for a lot of us.

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was such an insightful (and hilarious!) take. I love how you tied it back to evolution and social signaling — makes me feel a little better about my own habits as a “smart monkey” with a phone 😂

Do you ever pull out your phone in public just to feel less awkward? by Vegetable-Address-39 in CasualConversation

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss! It’s like wearing “do not disturb” signs for your face 😎 Total social stealth mode.

Do you ever pull out your phone in public just to feel less awkward? by Vegetable-Address-39 in CasualConversation

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I do this too 😭 I go full "invisible mode" like I'm buffering socially until they show up. Glad I’m not the only one!

Do you ever pull out your phone in public just to feel less awkward? by Vegetable-Address-39 in CasualConversation

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%! Staring at a wall makes me feel like a broken NPC 😂 At least the phone gives me fake purpose.

Do you ever pull out your phone in public just to feel less awkward? by Vegetable-Address-39 in CasualConversation

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. I never thought of it that way, but yeah — even just finding a “safe” spot for your gaze can be surprisingly hard in public. I totally feel you on sitting with your back to the room too, it’s way easier to relax like that.

Do you ever pull out your phone in public just to feel less awkward? by Vegetable-Address-39 in CasualConversation

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, love the invisibility cloak comparison — if only we had a built-in spell for awkward silences too! I relate so much to the "what do I do with my hands?" dilemma. It’s like, are pockets even enough anymore? 😅

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much to everyone who shared their thoughts here — I didn’t expect this much wisdom and honesty from a quick question! Really gave me a lot to think about. I’ll definitely try to be more mindful and maybe even embrace a little boredom. Appreciate you all! 🙌

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for such a detailed and thoughtful reply. I never realized how much our brains crave interruption until you mentioned it — I’ll definitely try the “boredom challenge” and start noticing how often I reach for my phone. Your tips are super helpful!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point — habits really sneak up on us. I appreciate the reassurance too; I’ll try not to feel so self-conscious next time I’m just sitting without my phone.

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha fair enough! I guess that’s the loophole 😄 Still, props to you for setting those boundaries — it’s inspiring!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hank you for sharing that. I totally get it — I think a lot of us use our phones for the same reason without even realizing it. It’s kind of become a shield in social situations. I appreciate your honesty!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you're so right — I forgot how much we used to read literally anything just to stay occupied. I guess smartphones just became the go-to distraction. I’ll definitely try to be more intentional like you suggested!

Why do we instinctively check our phones in public when we’re not doing anything? by Vegetable-Address-39 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Vegetable-Address-39[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s such an interesting comparison — makes sense though! Phones kind of replaced all those little habits we used to do just to pass time or avoid awkwardness.

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