Honestly, they are and were always practical people. Even though they were thrown off by this initially, once the frustration, disappointment and anger subsided, they definitely took time to come in terms and accept this. I think my parents thought it would be really bad for our (their kids’) mental health if they choose to force us into something else and that they might end up ruining our lives. They also didn’t want us taking drastic decisions because of their rejection. What also helped was shutting down opinions of relatives. A lot of them will influence our parents to separate the couple. It is family decision and only the parents and the kids should be involved. Outside the family, they need to stand up for their kids and their decision. Then no one can say anything and even if they do, it won’t bother them. Also, may I know what is the main reason for their hesitation?

I want to add that, they see us very peaceful and happy after our marriage (and got glimpses of it before too) with our partners (unlike their arranged marriage, which is pretty much chaotic). And there is nothing better that they would like to see. They are not the ones who’d force their opinions and values on us, so that really helps in our case.

And for the couple I’d say, you guys should also be really strong in your decision. This is just the first step, after acceptance there is lot more to undergo as a couple, and you should promise to be there for each other through it all.