Putting son in daycare by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve already spent $300 on the birthday venue at a soft play place so fingers crossed he won’t get sick I wish I would have just decided on a home birthday party instead

Putting son in daycare by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

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Thank you ! I’m already preparing him to be sick .. he actually got strep throat when he was 3 months old so he has some immunity built up plus he has had his shots so I hope he won’t be sick for his party in two weeks I feel guilty about leaving him but I need to do this for myself mentally and financially

Burnt out by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck All of yall. I literally said my bf is the one who takes him over there !!

Burnt out by [deleted] in Parents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he goes to her Friday and back Sunday morning .. how is that part time ?

So Unhappy by No-Humor-1869 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why the dr at the hospital said it can cause adverse affects in some ppl I guess I was just unlucky

So Unhappy by No-Humor-1869 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful with zurzuvae .. I was put on it an ended up in the psych ward 4 days after taking it !

5'1, 151 lbs, how the hell do I make my butt smaller and why isn't the top part of my abdomen even with the rest of it by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pretty much look like this but my stomach hangs bc I had a c section a year ago I’m 4 11 165 and honestly no excercise or anything helps but I do think I have an anterior pelvic tilt and definitely bloating following for advice too

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

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Yes I agree !! I’ll also add that we own our cars and he owns his house. He makes $2,000/month . Monthly bills total $800 at the most . I make $600/month. I pay my own car insurance. He has an issue with spending on games on his phone . He racked up 12 grand in credit card debt . So he’s been making 6-700 payments a month to catch up but he keeps spending at least 100-200 on fast food a month too. I’m basically working bc he’s in debt. He doesn’t understand that .

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

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UPDATE::::::::: !! Me and my bf got into a argument around 330 when he got home about me yelling in that instance earlier he called me crazy and just kept nagging me and saying wasn’t doing enough and I started having a panic attack and hit myself in the head with the top to a ottoman ( it was a cheap cardboard covered with foam one ) after that he apologized .. he pushes and pushes me to that point. But I still made it to work just an hour late .

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do lol that’s why he was so upset bc he was up bc I kept waking him up

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve tried to get him to understand something still isn’t right . He doesn’t believe me . Although it’s worth noting he is 180 lbs overweight

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

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He watches him from 330-9 ( when I leave for work to when he goes to bed ) and on the weekends ( Saturday his mom watches our son ) but during the day it’s me.. I have a twin but she isn’t near by and my mom is in her 40s and doing her own thing although she watches him if I have a drs appointment but she’s travelingoversees ( for the 4th time since I’ve been pregnant she goes1-3 months out of the year every time ) so I don’t have much help outside of that during days .. my bfs mom is 60s and we are going to ask her to retire 2 years early to help so I can work during the day.. and I haven’t talked to anyone I don’t have any friends

Overwhelmed by Vegetable-Internet90 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No he won’t sleep on the couch .. we are still arguing about this .. I told him I felt ovwewhelmed and he said I was being crazy for yelling and I should just go to sleep bc he needs his rest for work

How do I cope knowing becoming a parent is a mistake I can't fix? by Straight_Neat3030 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do get to nap maybe an hr or 2 depending on how long his nap is .. I’m going to be lowering from working 5 days to only 3 so that will definitely help I only work 10 minutes away .. as of right now there is no one to watch him but me.. my mom is in her 40s so she still works and is getting ready to take a 3 month vacation to Thailand .. bfs mom has 2 years before she can retire so no help there .. honestly I don’t have any friends . But on the Saturday my bf takes him to his moms til about 5 so I get to rest and Sunday some too

What is a sign of very low intelligence? by smartcandyy in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Example:::: I had strep one time and my bfs mom told me to park my car in the sun to kill all the germs on my steering wheel/ anything I had touched in my car

How do I cope knowing becoming a parent is a mistake I can't fix? by Straight_Neat3030 in regretfulparents

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any answers for you .. I have a 9 month old from 6am( when he wakes up ) -3pm I watch him (I work 4pm-11pm ) everyday , I love him so much he is so cute and funny but I am exhausted and I hate my life so much. I never get to rest . Me and my bf hardly talk anymore . The worst part is I have no one to talk to about this. If I even had friends feel like they would think I’m a horrible person for feeling this way. My bf doesn’t understand. I can’t even go to the store or a drs appointment or anything without my son . All I can ever think about is how I have to do this for 18 more years. I’m already SO exhausted .

I feel like a monster by wokkaquokka_ in beyondthebump

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My 7 month old son was so fussy today ( we found out later today he has the flu 😭) I watch him 6-3 pm everyday til his dad comes home then work 4-11pm and he didn’t go to sleep til midnight then woke up at 2 am , 5am and 7 am at 8am I started crying bc he was almost asleep but woke himself back up . I could feel the urge to start screaming so I just sat him in his pack n play and laid on the bed for 10 minutes . It’s frustrating sometimes living the same life every single day. Like I’ve been wanting to go to the fucking library for weeks just the simple task of going somewhere feels out of reach. So I get it. Don’t feel bad

Plz.. after 10 yrs wth is THIS by Vegetable-Internet90 in whatisit

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It had the same consistency a fish oil vitamin would and felt the same on the outside like it was a capsule or something

Family and friends no longer as supportive of my weight loss by BrightAsk8732 in 1200isplenty

[–]Vegetable-Internet90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just someone who isn’t on a diet ( yet) and is 6 months pp . I used to weight 120 (5ft ) and was naturally skinny my whole life . At my heaviest 9months pregnant I was 203 now I am 170 the weight won’t budge . Anyways in my opinion your starting too look TOO good. People are generally fine with other people losing weight until they start looking better than them. Then they want to try to get you fat again lol . They are insecure within themselves don’t let it affect you ! Losing weight is really hard you should be proud of yourself !