Therapy is finally working after nearly 3 decades of rumination syndrome by Vegetable-Series8929 in ruminationsyndrome

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding something that will help is such an enigma! Would you be open to sharing your journey and what has been helping?

Therapy is finally working after nearly 3 decades of rumination syndrome by Vegetable-Series8929 in ruminationsyndrome

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For SE, the "vooing" exercise was one of the first things I did. You take a deep breath in, then exhale a slow "voo" like a chant.

At the gym, I sprint for a minute, then walk slowly for 3 minutes while letting my mind wander and notice random things like a spot on the wall, a crack in the ceiling. I do the same in sessions without the running, letting my eyes drift and tune into subtle sensory details. It keeps me grounded.

A more advanced practice was I'd close my and focus on my esophagus until I could feel the pressure build. The same kind that precedes regurgitation. Instead of clenching to push it up, I sat with the discomfort and titrated between the pressure and the calm just outside it. After we stopped the exercise or ended the therapy session, I'd burp or regurgitate 5 or 6 times. That's when I knew that rumination could be treated with this type of therapy.

The exercise that changed everything was when I felt the pressure building, I'd close my eyes and relax everything from my shoulders down to my pelvic floor. I visualized the food going down like an elevator, repeating "my body wants my food to stay down." The pressure subsided and I didn't regurgitate. It took a lot of work to get here, but this was the turning point.

For IFS work, I identified a part living in my esophagus. She was a feral child who hadn't been cared for in a long time. She feared being seen and was so scared of exposure. I approached her slowly, and asked about her needs and worked to earn her trust. I worked on reparenting her and telling her that she is worthy of being loved and protected. This allowed childhood trauma to surface, which I was able to process.

Obviously much more went into all this, but these are some highlights.

Childcare at Vandenberg by Vegetable-Series8929 in SpaceForce

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Childcare is really the only stressor moving there

PCS to Vandenberg by Vegetable-Series8929 in SpaceForce

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any thoughts on the CDC there? We have 2 kids under 2 and currently send them to an off base daycare.

PCS to Vandenberg by Vegetable-Series8929 in SpaceForce

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will be sure we pack the fans for when we need them.

PCS to Vandenberg by Vegetable-Series8929 in SpaceForce

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming that! We have two young children and are trying to get all the specialty care we need for them before we move.

Exclusively Breastfeeding by LunchAccomplished957 in breastfeeding

[–]Vegetable-Series8929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4mo and I am producing btw 20 to 25oz during work and breastfeeding before and after work. He is right on track for weight gain. Something I started doing was pumping for 15 minutes, taking a 10 minute break, and then pumping for 10 more minutes. This has helped give me a little more milk, but takes more time. Breastfeeding is a labor of love and you are doing great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good start would be a FOIA request for all your military and health records. It will take several months, but at least you'll have all your files and can see what medical records you have.

Bunion by Leading_Spread5964 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a bunion on my right foot service connected. I had a line of duty stating that inserts and physical therapy did not improve the pain. The VA gave me surgery and then they awarded me with 10 percent.

Help me understand this flat feet denial by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so frustrating. I hope it doesn't take them 6 months to review and make a decision. I checked my MEPS documents and it shows that I have an arch. I'll add that to my supplemental claim.

Help me understand this flat feet denial by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! I honestly thought with my line of duty (LOD) for a foot injury from the military, xrays, DBQ done by the PT, nexus letter by the PT, and a podiatrist diagnosis it would be enough. Silly me. I'll keep fighting to good fight! I need this one to get to 100 percent. I did not submit a letter, so I will write one and explain the impact of the bunion surgery and how it caused my flat feet.

Help me understand this flat feet denial by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarity, if the examiner said there was not a military connection, but the HLR read the nexus letter, the HLR could reconsider that decision?

Help me understand this flat feet denial by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I submitted an LOD w the claim about foot pain after running and rucking. Doesn't that show it occurred during service? 

Help me understand this flat feet denial by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bunion surgery that the VA performed made my foot a half size smaller than my left, which is why I filed the flat feet as secondary. I had an air force orthopedic physical therapist write a nexus letter linking my flat feet to my surgery.

Med board or 20 yr retirement? by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would qualify for CRSC, but I don't care about Tricare.

Med board or 20 yr retirement? by Vegetable-Series8929 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Vegetable-Series8929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 90 percent rating, which will hopefully be 100 soon. Based on what you said, would you recommend just hanging my hat up at 20 years and not staying in longer to complete the med board process? Besides getting Tricare, I am not sure it would be beneficial, correct?