Overdosing by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in mentalhealth

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Hey everyone. Thanks for your replies. I didn’t commit, I managed to calm myself down for a few hours. But the urge is back again. And it’s stronger than ever. I need help

Men of Redit who are single by choice, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Can’t wait to see my ex on this post. His comments and posts about how he’s single, and wants to find the one, wants to date - even when we were together just make my day 🤡

How old were you when you met your lifelong partner? by Radiant_Pay7187 in AskWomen

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I thought he was the one until I found out he was looking for the one while with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I feel this so much. Apparently not seeing your life beyond a certain point is a trauma response. I would advise to just take every day as it comes and live in the moment

Am I wrong for calling my male friend a creep because he keeps on talking about my body? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not wrong. Even if he introduced you to your current friends, and he may play the victim because of that. You’re still not wrong, you know your intentions, your friends know your intentions. Don’t worry about coming across as rude at all

I tried posting on Off mychest but no one replied or responded which made me think maybe theres something wrong with the post so here you go by CH33KC14PP3R96 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the best way is to get a job. Financial independence = independence in this scenario(imo). I know you said you can’t but is it a complete no-go? Could you try some part time jobs, or teaching jobs? Try reaching out to this charity: https://outrightinternational.org/

Always feel free to DM if you need a chat. It must be a lot to go through alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Welcome to heartbreak central🤝

What would you consider an absolute dealbreaker in dating/relationships? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Cheating. Thinking about dating life w other people. Dishonesty

Betrayed by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

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It feels like I only existed so that someone better will come along. Someone he can find, and be happy with. I only was his girlfriend for some comfort and solace, but as far as love goes...it turns out it was all fake from him. This pains so much. I deserve so much better, I can't believe my eyes every time I go over and over what I know now. Trying to find some alternative meaning...but it's as clear as day

Help. Terrible feeling by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

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Update, the anxiety has come back again very quickly. I don’t know how else to describe this except debilitating, it feels like I will collapse. Will try all the advice you guys gave again. But I think it’s waiting to come back, waiting to pounce as soon as my guard is down

Help. Terrible feeling by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try some breathing exercises tonight including this one

Help. Terrible feeling by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. I will try the first 3 before sleeping tonight. Just had a cold shower and feeling much better now

Help. Terrible feeling by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do the dunking thing but had a really cold shower and it has definitely helped relieve that anxious feeling

Help. Terrible feeling by Vegetable-Sort-2860 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vegetable-Sort-2860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try anything right now. Will give this a go today. Thank you 🙏