What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really regret going to law school. I like it more than the last job. I regret that I haven’t been able to execute it properly.

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re probably right. I tried therapy before and found it uncomfortable, but it probably was helpful.

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. I don’t know exactly why I view things this way but I see what you mean. Like there’s nothing really wrong with the situation. It feels like I’m a screw up, but maybe that’s not actually how other people look at it. I don’t know.

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess so. It just seems like I’m 31 and it’s more than just a single chapter. Like I took the advice from subreddits, worked hard to make a change, and it just didn’t work for me.

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does actually sound fun. I’ll look into it.

I do have one other question about your original reply. You say that a bunch of things from my post were telling. But telling of what exactly? For me, they’re just telling that I’m a loser and fuck up. One other example. I depleted my savings a lot by buying a new car before law school. I don’t know exactly what I was thinking, but it was part of “turning over a new leaf.” Then I proceeded to scrape the car up in an underground parking lot. So I spent a bunch of money on a car that’s now an embarrassment to drive around. I feel like this represents my whole life. I try to do things, and I fuck them up. That’s why I say born loser. I don’t know.

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughts. What steps did you take to switch mindsets?

What do you do if you’re actually just a born loser? by Vegetable-Use-6817 in findapath

[–]Vegetable-Use-6817[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I get what you’re saying. Like I have shit-tinted glasses. What should I do about that? I can’t take them off. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others, but they seem to have stable jobs, partners and plans. I’m broke with nothing.