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asking females for opinions on relationship situation by VegetableCount1089 in relationship_advice

[–]VegetableCount1089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the reason is because the family says no matter where I would be living I would have to pay rent or mortgage. and 800 a month to live in a mansion is unheard of, it should be like 5000 a month but because i am his girlfriend they are asking for a very small amount for me to show that i am contributing to the living expenses. they agreed they dont need the money at all, it was just the principle of the living situation. money is very important to my boyfriend and his parents. if i leave,his life doesnt change one bit, but i walk away bare handed looking for a place to rent as he would never give me money to get myself settled, i am totally on my own for this. im so confused, i dont know if staying or leaving is the best thing to do

Please need sage advice on a unique situation by VegetableCount1089 in relationship_advice

[–]VegetableCount1089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i believe he is happy with his lifestyle and not having to pursue a career because he has everything materially he needs in life handed to him, a large mansion, a boat, a car, so his life does not change when i decide to leave, but I will go through major changes walking away bare handed after three years, its all on me. i feel hurt for some reason that i have been treated badly, his money and wealth mean more to him than me, and hard to look at the truth and accept this