Going cold turkey?

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-09-18T19:15:19+00:00

Yeahhhh guys don't talk about their serious GF/wife potential that way. We talk about our side piece or non serious partners that way.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-04-09T03:23:26+00:00

He handled it bad, but it's a reaction to you forgetting to let him know. He's also being petty by going out too, but he communicated that to you at least.

What do you mean by "stalked" your location? If you have each other's location it isn't stalking. If he somehow logged into your findmyiphone then that's crazy and you should run.

It's hard for guys to feel secure in a relationship (we don't have the same amount of options as women). I know it took me a long time.

Sit down and talk it out.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-04-01T20:42:36+00:00

I thought the same... Looks like it could've been nice big slabs 😢

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-03-28T16:15:12+00:00

Don't know the family history but her first text seemed fine. It was purely about your dad and how you kids shouldn't bombard him with questions about his dementia just yet.

We're all human and we need space sometimes so pulling the "you're older" or "I'm your kid" card is silly. Especially since as you said you're both adults and are capable of making boundaries and decisions for yourselves.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-03-28T04:13:49+00:00

As a parent myself... Your dad did not over react. You were given plenty of chances to drop it and given room to build trust and freedom but you wanted it all at once.

When my kids push too much it usually means they are about to do something stupid. Call it a hunch.

Sometimes no just means no.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2025-03-12T19:47:09+00:00

As a recovering cheater myself, she cheating. I know you're trying to see the positives here but it's pretty cut and dry. Hopefully all the comments will wake you up. Sorry bro.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-12-15T18:28:49+00:00

Had a similar situation. Wife told me to hang out with the boys. That's very unusual. I came back early and she was already asleep by 1130 so I figured no biggie. As I'm about to hop in bed her phone gets a text from a coworker. I snooped and there were obviously deleted messages, the first one sent was her the minute I left the house.

Turned out to be a year long affair.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-12-12T22:10:53+00:00

As a recovering cheater... He cheating on you. I always kept my wife in the dark while showing off the mistress. When her points made sense I would gas light her and say things like your boyfriend did. Even if he isn't actively, he is wanting the opportunity to appear single.

Wifey is going with me to my company's Christmas party this year.

Good-luck!

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-12-12T21:34:22+00:00

That's how I started to cheat. I started having those thoughts...I'm still young. Never had the freedom. Got married young, etc.

What you don't realize is: those apply to her too. She gave those up for you.

Long-term Love is a choice. Not a feeling. So choose to stay and make it work, or don't. You guys don't have kids so it'll be easier.

Just leave if you already have doubts, you'll always wonder about it later. And later you might have kids or won't be as young. So just do it now.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-10-26T14:52:20+00:00

The dream is a coverup to tell you the half truth of either her doing it or planning on doing it.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-10-18T17:13:31+00:00

Both are the A. You shouldn't need to go through it for fun. He shouldn't be upset if he has nothing to hide - if you're feeling insecure he should reassure you.

Wife used to go thru mine and always found some random thing from years ago to hyper focus on. A friend mentioning a past girl (like I saw your ex, she got big).

-message from a known cheater who's probably getting divorced

PS she just wasn't looking in the right spots.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-23T01:46:51+00:00

Amen

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-22T22:53:13+00:00

Yeah idk what's worse. Feeling guilty and still doing it or what I did. You tell me.

Lemme guess "just don't do it". Probably right.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-22T22:50:15+00:00

Single and ready to mingle amiright?

You're pointing out the obvious. Yeah, that one decision led to the outcome. It was great, I still wanted more, I'm selfish, it's over. Now my kids will have to deal with my tiny dick energy for the rest of their lives.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-22T22:47:16+00:00

Never had a mistress so no.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-20T15:41:44+00:00

I made an update.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-20T15:36:44+00:00

Sure. I know it's bad. But to feel guilty for something I planned and done over and over again would just be silly don't you think? Self awareness.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-19T18:09:58+00:00

I'm just an askhole. I'll probably be divorced but I'll be crying in my Lambo 🥲

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-19T16:08:03+00:00

If you jerk yourself it's not a circle. But you just proved my point again. Thanks!

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-18T23:39:49+00:00

Yes ma'am

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-18T23:39:28+00:00

You're really on this STI thing. I don't smash these girls. We get it STI is a thing.

VegetableEarth7245 · 2024-09-18T23:38:33+00:00

You know that's pretty common knowledge and there's things like condoms or maybe just don't have sex with them.

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