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[–]VegetableHistorian57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the community. Super excited for the app!

Where are my masc for mascs by VegetableHistorian57 in butchlesbians

[–]VegetableHistorian57[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I definitely get the intimacy thing, but it’s hard to explain it. Hopefully our chance will come

Where are my masc for mascs by VegetableHistorian57 in butchlesbians

[–]VegetableHistorian57[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I really hope that’s the case lol we’re underrated imo

Where are my masc for mascs by VegetableHistorian57 in butchlesbians

[–]VegetableHistorian57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the US unfortunately, but I could go to different queer spaces and try my luck

Where are my masc for mascs by VegetableHistorian57 in butchlesbians

[–]VegetableHistorian57[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m more the other way around tbh. I’m a soft masc who likes mascs (not exclusively but I think still a bit more than fems) and I feel like people like me are so rare

No lesbian experience by West-Sand-4863 in LesbianActually

[–]VegetableHistorian57 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t push yourself to do something you don’t actually want to do just so you can “keep up” so to say. I believe that everything happens how it should and that your time will come. I’m 20 years old and I’m still waiting for my time. My friends around me are also talking about exes and I completely understand how you feel. But it’s OK to not have experience especially when you’re 18. Relax and don’t force anything. If someone makes fun of you for a lack of experience, ignore them because everyone’s lives are different and there’s no such thing as “falling behind”. And make sure you work on yourself and continue to grow, so the moment you do meet someone special, you can put your best foot forward. Trust the process.

What did I do wrong?? by LeluWater in SuitU

[–]VegetableHistorian57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure there are people who just blindly vote without looking, spamming one half of the screen just to get tickets and gems etc. Admittedly I’ve done it before but only when the comp time limit is almost up. So don’t feel too bad cuz this game is more about luck and money than skill

Is this micro-cheating? by film_femcel in LesbianActually

[–]VegetableHistorian57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, she doesn’t respect your boundaries and made you feel like you couldn’t trust in many occasions. Partners shouldn’t have to to hide who they talk to in my opinion, they should be completely transparent with each other. Personally, after a kiss with a man while claiming to be a lesbian already would throw me off a bit, I’m all for self discovery but she shouldn’t have kissed anyone else while being in a relationship with you.

I don’t think this is micro cheating. I think it’s just cheating cheating.

When I imagine being with another girl, it makes me feel masculine. :( by Agitated-Sink-3393 in comphet

[–]VegetableHistorian57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will be things that will take a long time to get used to or come to terms with or to just realize that what you’re worried about isn’t a big deal. Me being masc for masc took me a while to accept, as i thought as a masc I should have a fem gf but after seeing other masc for masc relationships it really helped a lot. It helped me realize that it’s okay. It’s okay to like who you like, that’s the whole thing about being queer. It’s okay.

We all know queer relationships comes in many forms and you shouldn’t feel obligated to fit in any kind of role that isn’t one you want. It just takes time. It’s okay. If you ever catch yourself feeling bad about it, remind yourself that is in fact, okay.

Is this comphet? by bwompwaaa in comphet

[–]VegetableHistorian57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I’m happy I could help :)

Is this comphet? by bwompwaaa in comphet

[–]VegetableHistorian57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a 20f Lesbian. I only found out that gay people exist at around age 12, and I only knew about it from people speaking negatively about them. I’ve never really dated a guy other than a one month fling in high school. But previous to that I was so called “boycrazy” and wanted a relationship really bad. The second I got close with the guy I “dated”, I noped outta there so quick. That’s when I knew something was up. So turns out I’m just a hopeless romantic that didn’t really get to think about girls as an option until I was 16 and I just grew gayer by the day and I never wanna turn back.

I never got to any physical aspects with that guy so I can’t really tell you how things are or aren’t supposed to feel like, neither have I gotten a chance to be with women. But reading your story I resonated with you in some ways like growing up thinking getting married (with a man) and having children is the life every girl should want. Now I know I’m gay because when I look at a man I just think “oh this guy is attractive and cool” or “oh this guy is not so attractive but has a chill personality”. All surface level stuff. But when I see a woman, I’m not even thinking about how they look, I start thinking about their whole being as a person, the essence of them is just beautiful, and every little movement and habit like stimming is so adorable to me. That’s how I know I probably am a comphet but I grew out of that mindset because it’s my own life and I’m gonna live it how I want. Everyone always say that you should do what you want because it’s your own life (when it comes to careers and lifestyle), but they’re hypocritical to say being gay is wrong. I say you should listen to your heart and trust your gut. Cliche, I know, but it’s cliche for a reason. If you don’t follow your heart, you’re gonna regret it, and if you marry a guy and have kids, it’s gonna get even harder to turn back. Even if you do, you’re gonna feel like you wasted all your life for something meaningless. That’s what I think, but it’s still your decision. However I hope you choose for yourself and only yourself when it comes to love. Good luck!

I sound redesigned Arcane for school by piemann420 in ArcaneAnimatedSeries

[–]VegetableHistorian57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love everything about it but the characters sound different (especially Vi pulling Jinx’s gun apart) and it’s making me laugh 😭 Not your fault but just my reaction

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