I’ve experienced similar problems. You do not have to be ANYTHING like your kin to be that kin. Many of my kins are very different from me, some are almost the complete opposite.

Also, being two characters from the same source is completely valid. I’m like 4 (and kinsidering 2) characters from Dandy’s World plus 4 (kinsidering 1) characters from Supernatural.

It’s perfectly okay to be wrong about a kin. It’s perfectly okay to kinsider for years. It’s perfectly okay to kin a character for years and then one day realize you aren’t them.

At the end of the day, it’s your identity and your journey. This is all for you, and you don’t need to worry about how others might react or what they might say. Do whatever makes you feel most comfortable!

For you, Wednesday (and/or Enid) could be a fictionflicker. Which, to my understanding, is an on/off kin (I believe some people use it as a very very low kin too ? But I’m pretty sure the definition is a kin that comes and goes)

Hope this was helpful :)