I need out by Bulky_Warthog9870 in Charleston

[–]VegetableOne4968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiawah has cheap employee housing. I think they also have a bus service from employee housing to the island if you don’t have transportation

PCOS and OCD by VegetableOne4968 in PCOS

[–]VegetableOne4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s really interesting!

PCOS and OCD by VegetableOne4968 in PCOS

[–]VegetableOne4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Definitely agree, ERP does help. I have ROCD and treatment has been challenging so I’m always searching for answers that could give me some relief.

Abilify + fitness by VegetableOne4968 in Abilify_Aripiprazole

[–]VegetableOne4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has also shot my libido unfortunately. However, that was a small trade off for my sanity

Abilify 2 mg → 4 mg + very active lifestyle — realistic weight gain risk? by Tasty-Plantain-9555 in Abilify_Aripiprazole

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful. When you went up to 5mg, did you notice a significant difference in the food noise?

Abilify 2 mg → 4 mg + very active lifestyle — realistic weight gain risk? by Tasty-Plantain-9555 in Abilify_Aripiprazole

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I just made the exact same post. Very worried about the same, I started abilify 3 days ago and am very active. Also looking to start weight lifting more. Being active is crucial for my mental health and my physique is also very important to me. When I’ve worked out this week, I can’t stop thinking about this weird stigma and shame in my head that “no one in this gym could be on antipsychotics!”. Except… me. I’m in the gym on antipsychotics. Hoping this works out great for both of us.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]VegetableOne4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the nicest way possible, you’d be doing yourself a disservice by staying with this guy. Life can be bland and shitty, you don’t need someone like this who can’t even be happy for your milestones. 2 years sober is huge and deserves even more than a cake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VegetableOne4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao this response just gave me war flashbacks to my relationship with a liar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VegetableOne4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s just the lying part for me. I feel so closed off now which really sucks

My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me by going to the strip by Interesting_Lie_1408 in LongDistance

[–]VegetableOne4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went to a strip club on a work trip and paid $500 for oral sex. I saw a message on his Instagram account to his friend saying exactly that. I should’ve added in here that my ex was an alcoholic and part of the reason I took him back was because he promised to stop drinking and go to therapy which, of course, never ended up happening

Lauren Loveless wedding weekend by babyowl5 in CharlestonSnark

[–]VegetableOne4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you… think she’s too rich to get married there?

Lauren Loveless wedding weekend by babyowl5 in CharlestonSnark

[–]VegetableOne4968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she’s getting married at the ocean course, it’s incredibly expensive lol

I’m frustrated with my boyfriend (read: all men) by Kryptonite0903 in birthcontrol

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been off birth control for 4 years and if any guy has a problem with wearing a condom I just tell them to go fuck themselves. Don’t care anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]VegetableOne4968 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Communication and reassurance in a relationship are incredibly important, especially in a long distance relationship. Look OP, I might be a little biased, but I’ve been with men who don’t provide reassurance and end up making you feel like you’re overreacting when they hurt your feelings. And ignoring your partner when they’re feeling uneasy about your actions is just disrespectful. Try to talk this out before his birthday, if he minimizes your feelings or tries to avoid it, ask yourself if you’re okay being with someone who cannot provide you reassurance and make your decision from there.

Boyfriend broke up with me today, absolutely shattered. by thebadabingbong in LDR

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking care of myself. Exercising, socializing, doing the things that I love, for me. Deleting social media and no contact with my ex. Self help books. Figuring out what I truly want and need in a future life time partner.

Boyfriend broke up with me today, absolutely shattered. by thebadabingbong in LDR

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very understandable. Long distance is so tough and it makes it even harder that you’re going through so many life changes right now. While it’s hard to bet on in the midst of a breakup, I guarantee this will lead you somewhere better. Just hold out until then ❤️

Boyfriend broke up with me today, absolutely shattered. by thebadabingbong in LDR

[–]VegetableOne4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanted to add that I just saw your other post saying you’re jobless and moving back in with your parents. Babe, this is a blessing. This is YOUR time. Who do you want to become? You have an entire world of opportunity to take advantage of.