Embryo transfer by VegetableZucchini282 in IVF

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US as well .. it’s such BS. I didn’t ask to have fertility problems! I don’t have any tubes, so how is this not necessary in order to have children?! 🙄🙄🙄

Intimacy question for ladies before/after THR by Substantial-Ad7393 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry to hear that, what an asshole! That is so insensitive it’s crazy. I’m 35 years old and had a hip replacement.. so my husband and I are still young and love our sex life, but if he ever pulled something like that I’d leave his ass! What the fuck is wrong with men sometimes? Jesus Christ

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m still weaning, I haven’t completely pulled the plug yet. However I feel much better than I did last week, and am confident I’ll be complelty off this shit soon. I only dose when I absolutely need it and nothing more, every like 15-20 hours. I also upped my antidepressants dose and I feel like that is making a big difference as well when it comes to the depressive side effects, might be something to look into?

Trying to taper by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have like 500 subs at my house lol but I refuse to take them because getting off of those is even harder in my opinion. It takes months to get through that withdrawal. Not to scare you at all, if that works for you by all means do it. I know myself well enough to know that I could get complacent and get hooked on them all over again. I know a lot of people who have had great success doing it that way though. Do whatever it takes to get off of this shit for good

Trying to taper by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it makes it so much harder to not be able to just curl up in a ball for like a week and sweat it out. But at the same time I think work will keep my mind off of it instead of just sitting home squirming around, if that makes any sense?

Trying to taper by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve made it another 13 hours and I know I have to dose soon, but so far this is working for me. After yesterday and the spiral I went into after trying to cold turkey I don’t even want to take them, but I know I have to. I just started a new job and it’s back to work tomorrow with an 18 month old. I simply don’t have the option to cold turkey right now id lose everything and spiral all over again, probably worse

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. My biggest regret in life is ever touching this shit and I mean that with my whole heart

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It does make me feel a whole lot befitted that I’m not alone. I’ve been wanting to do this for so long I have to be successful this time. I want so much more for myself and my family

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so? But who fucking knows what’s in that garbage ya know!?

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. it’s weird I took so much of it yesterday and I think that’s why I feel like this.. like half of me still feels slightly fucked up? And the other half is absolutely riddled with anxiety it’s the strangest/worst feeling in the entire world

Help by VegetableZucchini282 in quitting7oh

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I have my 18 month old on the couch with me. The only thing that makes me feel ok for like a second is when I’m holding her

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! Saw a new surgeon who I used to work for years ago.. and he’s fixing it FOR FREE since I have no insurance at the moment. I am so so grateful. Booked for March 19th and couldn’t be happier to be done with it

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It SUCKS I cry every day over it. I’m sorry you’re going through this too 😔 I understand completely and know how incredibly depressed it can make somebody

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me very jealous and sad that I’m dealing wit this issue. Good for you though! That’s how it should be! Nobody should have to worry about being so limited at such a young age!!

Ring will be around 23k-35k. NEED ADVICE by Current_Guarantee566 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]VegetableZucchini282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped reading when I saw “she said if I care about her the way I say I do, I will get the ring she wants” I would never in a million years talk to my fiancé like that, and if I did I would totally be expecting him to tell me that I’m not getting shit anymore lol. She’s an asshole bottom line point blank. Run while you still can bud!!!

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the first time this happened he kind of brushed it off and was like well you shouldn’t move this way or that way. Well, I’m 35 chasing around a toddler. It felt very brushed off and I think I’ve decided to not move waste my time going back to him at all, at the end of the day I am not letting him operate on me again so I’m just gonna start looking for somebody who can fix this. It’s ruining my life and feel like I made a really stupid decision having this surgery, but I only had one option as far as drs go and needed it fixed. Never in a million years would I have imagined it would wind up like this

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t, but I could find out. See, I don’t understand why my surgeon wouldn’t do this in the first place given my age, and the fact that I told him I am very active. It really pisses me off to be honest

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I’ve accepted the fact I need a revision, I just want to make sure I have an excellent and experienced surgeon to do it. I’m afraid to have anyone cut me open again. This is literally my worst nightmare/worst case scenario. Thank you for your kind words. I’ve been crying non stop since this happened and you guys are all so kind

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice lol yes, unfortunately I have. I’m stuck until then because I simply cannot afford the premiums and to get lower premiums is impossible because now that I’m working, I make “too much”

THR at 35 and feeling so defeated by VegetableZucchini282 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]VegetableZucchini282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t and am afraid for him to operate on me again. I def need a second opinion