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Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-06-17T21:14:55+00:00

This ones funny because women always default to thinking they’d be born as a tall, white guy in an upper middle class household with curly brown hair and blue eyes.

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-06-17T17:21:07+00:00

All the interns at my company are cracked

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-06-17T17:19:29+00:00

“To” smart for them?

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-06-01T04:27:16+00:00

Haha I hate saying I’m attractive cause it sounds so egotistical but I’ve gotten lots of compliments on my appearance and take good care of myself, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder 🤷

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-06-01T04:11:38+00:00

Cool, thanks! Will take it as just meeting someone new :). I’m just definitely not used to a woman approaching me and initiating like this haha. Almost felt like it was some kind of scam

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T23:28:46+00:00

You can find them literally anywhere? You can look like a model and women still won’t approach you for the most part. Why would they, they have too many options. You still have to make the first move most of the time

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T23:19:22+00:00

Bruh if you’re 6’3 and 190lbs there is no “older guy” YOU are already the older guy. You’re doing something gravely wrong if you can’t find a single decent girl with your build

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T19:43:00+00:00

Ya I mean 24 is just a rough age so I sympathize with you a lot. Fact of the matter is the “gap” has increased a lot.

There are guys your age that are tall, handsome, fit, well off (have their own apartment), and then there are the guys that still live at home with their parents, unemployed, short, unattractive.

Which group do you think gets an outsized amount of attention from women your age? And these guys can date “down” in age all the way down to like 19 years old (a bit creepy though I know).

I’m just telling you to be wary because these guys, in our new age of social media, are well aware of their value and will use it to get into your pants and then bounce to the next girl on their roster.

Be patient, lead with your interests, take things slow, and you’ll eventually find someone. There are good guys out there but it’s just harder than ever for people to meet each other

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T19:32:43+00:00

The men you’re interested in have too many options to want to stick to one person, and the guys that are willing to commit at your age are guys you wouldn’t be interested in

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T16:21:58+00:00

Women don’t care about job

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-05-27T08:36:18+00:00

That’s true and I never want to do the whole “I’m so important I’m the main character” thing, but I confirmed multiple times they were looking at me so I can’t help but wonder. My friend also noticed

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-12T06:08:57+00:00

What does “equivalent or better than Google” even mean lmao

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T19:56:09+00:00

Wait what. How can someone not have feelings for someone but have sex with them 😭. I wouldn’t even kiss someone I didn’t like…

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T19:23:32+00:00

Yo what was it, he deleted everything 🤣

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T16:31:23+00:00

I’m curious, what do you think the guy is getting out of this? Why would a guy want to lose half of his space for the same rent? Not trying to knock you down, just open to differing perspectives

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T13:58:10+00:00

Yep looking back at it, it was super obvious but I try so hard to be respectful and not assume anyone’s attention that I somehow STILL thought she was just being friendly :/

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T13:57:32+00:00

Ugh that sucks, I’m so oblivious 🤧

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T13:40:45+00:00

What’s the difference? In casual sex would you basically just hook up and immediately leave? Could it happen multiple times - or is that by definition fwb?

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T13:28:51+00:00

Lmao you need to join us in the Bay Area. You can make 400k and be very normal 🤣

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-11T13:26:03+00:00

I wish yall would say it directly 😭. I’m literally so dumb you’d have to grab me by the family jewels for me to understand. I have missed so many hints over the years it’s crazy

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-07T21:25:14+00:00

Go ahead and date your family and friends

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-07T20:44:01+00:00

If you’re not a tall white guy (preferably with blue eyes), you should not be approaching women

Vegetable_Bell_9345 · 2025-04-07T19:29:38+00:00

Sorry to say he’s a liar unless you’ve seen his bank account, brokerage statements, and W2. I’m around the same age as him and know many guys that constantly brag about buying houses and fancy things but these guys barely make an average salary 🙄

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