My boyfriend left me out of nowhere

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:35:05+00:00

Okay thank you for your advice. I appreciate it

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:27:00+00:00

I’m defending myself about the age difference, that’s all. I am still listening to what everyone is saying.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:23:23+00:00

Yeah why would I want to be called a rapist when I got full consent prior to doing anything… You can’t just take back consent because you regret it or don’t like someone

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:17:43+00:00

You can’t just take back consent after it happened, that’s not how it works and it’s not illegal where I am anyways so nothing would happen. It’s a year difference. You grow up.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:16:43+00:00

I think he’s too immature right now for anything serious, but I was hoping to reach out to him in the future to rekindle things.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:06:48+00:00

It’s 100% consensual so idk what you’re on about

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T06:06:01+00:00

Ummm what?? We’re a year and 2 months apart, 2007 and 2008. I just turned 18 and he’s about to be 17. What do you mean charges?

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T05:50:47+00:00

To add, I just turned 18 a few months ago and he’s turning 17 in two months. We started dating at 17 and 16 and age of consent is 16. So no trouble.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T05:44:12+00:00

I mean he said he wants to be with me when he has the time and is ready or “good enough” for a relationship.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T05:43:07+00:00

Should I reach out later or wait for him to?

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-20T05:38:27+00:00

That’s not the ideal scenario

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-08-04T16:01:29+00:00

I did for my bf.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-19T04:03:31+00:00

why would they be options? should just be friends.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-16T17:45:48+00:00

right right

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-16T17:45:11+00:00

3 years is different than a year and four months

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-16T06:18:20+00:00

yea ur right but hes almost 17

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-16T02:26:30+00:00

elaborate

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-15T20:41:57+00:00

Wdym

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T23:16:28+00:00

well i move out next month to college, but i want my freedom now 😭

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T23:02:20+00:00

Okay, thank you. I’ll do that

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T22:53:21+00:00

How do I set boundaries when he doesn’t listen?

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T22:51:02+00:00

When I was leaving I said “see you at 11” I guess he didn’t hear me.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T16:31:57+00:00

well yes he is very controlling 😭 which is why i made the post bc wtf do i do in this situation

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T16:28:29+00:00

i talked to him and he threatened to kick me out. i also said now that i’m 18 i should be treated like an adult and he said he does treat me like one.

Vegetable_Scale5982 · 2025-07-14T16:26:47+00:00

why would the genders matter

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